okay i really really like this gurl at school but the thing is dat every time i go to ask her out i just get nervous or just start thinking and start wondering and getting scared dat shell say no. wut should i do help?????
2007-03-08 07:39:38 · 6 answers · asked by WtfMan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude don't sweat it. No guts no glory. And yes getting shot down sucks. But its all part of the dating game. So don't let the fear of rejection overwhelm you. Just spend some time, talk to her, read her body lanuage and how she responds to what you say. You might not know the outcome of the battle but you can also choose the battlefield. Find out when would be a good time to ask her out. Polly some place where she hangs out and where she's most relaxed, ask her out to do something you know she would enjoy. Such as a movie she's looking forward to seeing or paintballing, whatever.
Anyways, grow a pair and just ask her out. The worst that'll happen is rejection, and that'll only hurt for a few weeks.
Goodluck.
2007-03-08 07:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by Leon Clemens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to first accept what will happen. Only one of two things. She will "accept" you or she will "reject" you. Nothing else is going to happen.... So you are nervous because you are worried that you may get rejected...well, that happens sometimes.. There will be times that you too, will reject someone. And you are nervous that you will be accepted. There will be times that you too, will accept someone. So in either case you are nervous? So what is the lesson. Let go getting worried about something that you have no control over and get it over with... Just ask her!!!!!
2007-03-08 15:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Che K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first know its not neccesary to get a girl until you feel comfortable. before you ask her out, ask why you nervous. just ask. the worst she could say is no and then move on. so there will be no wasted time that you could have found a new girl you like. go gettar
2007-03-08 15:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by jam j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a candy *** and ask her already your not going to die if she says she doesnt feel the same
2007-03-08 15:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself.
Try not to get nervous.
Breath deeply and just go for it.
Like they always say......If you REALLY want something....you just have to do all that you can to get it.
good luck.
2007-03-08 15:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by *BABY NENA* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man up and just ask her..u never know she's probably waiting for u to ask her out..
2007-03-08 15:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by Because I'm Kool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋