a guy that you like, tells you that you are beautiful, lovely, and sweet but the only problem he has is that you have 10 pounds overweight, but he stills talk to you for hours, and tells you that you are awsome what does it means?
2007-03-08 07:36:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
offcourse he likes you. he just telling you something bad about you so u get pulled in closer to himm. using the word beautiful already tells you he likes you. dont worry about that weight. Just Continue wat you do. GooD LuCK (remember we only act like jerks or make little bad comments to girls we like )
2007-03-08 07:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he really enjoys your company, finds your personality quite attractive and compatible, really likes you but he cannot have a relationship with you because physically, you just don't quite do it for him. He prefers women who are trim and/or physically fit. Physical attraction is at least as big of a deal for guys as it is for girls. If he does end up in a relationship with you, he'll likely never be quite satisfied if it bothered him enough to tell you that.
There is a major double standard among some people in that regard, but the truth is, most guys prefer women who have trim bodies because sexually, we are visually stimulated.
Go ahead, give me some thumbs down for saying it, but it's the truth!
EDIT:
Thanks, V.S.!
2007-03-08 15:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he is shallow and not worth your time and energy. I like you but..... you finish that one, it never ends good. From a guys point of view if I can search out ten extra pounds on a woman, I'm too gay to try to date her.
2007-03-08 15:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by in_TIM_idation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he wants you to change and he's being a jerk. You should be happy with who you are, and if someone genuinly likes you, they want tell you you need to lose weight to be the person the want to be with. Get rid of him or stay friends, but i woudln't go any further than that. If you want to lose weight, that's your choice; nobody else's.
2007-03-08 15:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he's being honest with u. Most guys would lie about something like that so u should appreciate his honesty. If u care about him try to lose that extra 10lbs.
2007-03-08 15:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by *VS* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that he is a jerk.10 pounds is just to start with, then its the way u talk,then he wouldnt like the way u dress,what your thought are and etc.tell him that he would just have to accept u the way you are if he wants smth. u dont ask him to change anything for you.so whats the right he got?
2007-03-08 15:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Mystery_gal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means he isn't attracted to you because for him you are overweight. But if you are comfortable with your weight then it's time to find someone new.
2007-03-08 15:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has one problem with you but other than that he thinks you are a sweet pretty girl
2007-03-08 15:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means he is a jerk and not worth your time.
Ten pounds??!! Are you kidding?!
Don't put up with that.
2007-03-08 15:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by ←Shea→ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that he is shallow and the only reason he would talk to you is for your looks and that you need to kick him where the sun-dont-shine...thats what it means
2007-03-08 15:41:10 · answer #10 · answered by madaboutyou55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋