I have an ex-boyfriend and we have actually been broken up technically since may 2005. Problem is we still communicate, sometimes bad, sometimes good, sometimes flirty and sexy....I have gone on nemerous dates and just done everything possible. We both made huge errors in our relationship. Anyway last night he came by.....I just had this feeling he would. I know I love him and he says he still loves me...what the hell are we doing. When I seen him last night all the feelings came flooding back, we just kissed and hugged and tried to make sense, of where we went wrong. He says he's not seeing anyone??? Today I am all messed up, haven't heard from him and we have done this random visit before and both got freaked out. He says I need to show more effort but I am scared. We were the best together it was always outsiders who got the best of us ie:his ex-wife....I am so confused!!!! I love him but scared. If I let him go i will have to do so for good once and for all, i wish i knew???
2007-03-08 07:34:58 · 9 answers · asked by sexandthecityaint got nothin!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear God please not another Ex question. And just like all the others, I fail to see where the question is.
2007-03-08 07:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Quix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am one of the few people left who still believe in true love. That being said, time tends to make people forget the things that drive us nuts about each other and get lost in the physical "nearness" of the familiar body beside you. I think you sound like a smart girl who needs to make a BIG life choice. Rather than letting part of your past come back and put you in a delicate position, you should decide where and what you want from this person. Who is he after you have been separated for almost 2 years to start telling you that you should show more effort. Unless it was your lack of "effort" initially that caused a rift between you, I would suggest a serious walk back in your memory to the time that you broke up to remember all the reasons you let him slip away the first time
2007-03-08 16:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lexi Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicating with each other is the first thing that must happen if you two are going to be a couple. So ask him, if he says no then you can have closure. Don't listen to outsiders, listen to each other. The best relationships take work, meaning caring about each other's feeling and respecting one another. Ask him to sit down and have a serious conversation about what you both want.
2007-03-08 15:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Tony S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty sure this has happened to me with an ex of mine...except I am the one that wants to go forward & figure things how but he always runs & pretends it never happened...& we are just friends. it's really annoying. Also it confuses me because he is dating someone right now that is completely opposite of me & he says he loves her? it's dumb. haha
All I can say is try! try & see what it all means. I mean if you have someone willing to figure it out with you then don't stop it. Figure it out!! hope I helped.
2007-03-08 15:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by kimijean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make more of an effort. If you really want to be with him then do what ever you have to. Give him a call.
2007-03-08 15:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by SHELLBELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my policies is that I don't go out with exes, they are my exes for a reason right,
2007-03-08 15:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not give him another chance because if you dont you will forever wonder what if. so give him another chance. you said you love him right? test the waters a little
2007-03-08 15:39:57 · answer #7 · answered by laneabridges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves u and u love him...............go 4 it but b careful
2007-03-08 15:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by kris j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should follow your heart
2007-03-08 15:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by Nocurfew313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋