2007-03-08 07:29:49 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what if it was a "good breakup" and you are still friends.
2007-03-08 07:33:50 · update #1
sure, why not?
2007-03-08 07:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by Its not me Its u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why on earth would I do that when there was no hope of getting back together? I would just get another shot at feeling rejected and unloved in return. Find someone who appreciates you. You don't want your ex because they hurt you so keep that hurt part on your mind when you think of them. You miss the emotion, and not the person who rejected you. You can find that emotion with someone else who is right for you. Start thinking ahead!! Good Luck!!
2007-03-08 07:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO that is a very bad idea,trust me have to many friends that went into that situation,didn't go so good leave it alone,unless if you were buzz then thats o.k but let it be move on..!.If it was a good break-up sometimes #hit happens but very rare,if it was a good break-up it might work getting back together,but..know this only for a very short-time...!cause questions well be asked during the time appart.!
2007-03-08 07:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way.
No use in embarrassing yourself further.
Telling them you love them is not going to change the way they feel.
If someone broke up with you and no longer loves you, then why even waste time thinking about them further?
There are so many people in the world who are capable of loving you. Not just one. You should go out and find them.
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2007-03-08 07:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not make sense telling any of them since you know they do not love you. The only thing that would come from that is psychological trauma and your succeeding in making yourself small before them.
Go with your dignity intact and I assure you, there are many fishes in the water ok.
2007-03-08 07:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by comradechris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that depends. I really need more details like did your ex break up with you for someone else or did they just want to end it because it wasn't working for them?
If they ended it to be with someone else, than they're not worth your time anyway, but if they just ended it because it wasn't working out for them, than sure, why not? at least you would know what happens and not be wondering anymore.
2007-03-08 07:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on if u 2 are still friends or not... if u are then it might make things more awkward then they already r... but if u r not then tell them.. it will be in the back of their mind and they might still like u after all
2007-03-08 07:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way an ex is a ex for a reason remember the reason!
2007-03-08 07:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. What would be the point if you know they dont love you back. If you were uncertain then maybe go ahead and tell them, but you know so....dont do it.
2007-03-08 07:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by hem_084 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did one time and it helped me to get over him. Loving someone in secret tears you up inside and prevents you to open up for other people. Once you've told him, and you've heard him say he doesn't love you back, you can start healing and opening yourself up for other people.
2007-03-08 07:33:51 · answer #10 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's always best to be honest about things like that. Even if they don't feel the same at least you know you said your peace. If you hold it in you will forever be plagued with "what if"?
2007-03-08 07:31:56 · answer #11 · answered by Aerion 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋