I've been close friends with this guy for about 3 years and I've been told that he liked me and I really like him! I'm not sure what to do??Should I tell him how I feel or just play it cool? What if he ends up not liking me in that way? How do I read boys!??!!?! PLEASE HELP!
2007-03-08 07:06:19 · 13 answers · asked by Becca 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go ahead and tell him. If you heard he likes you then he probably does. If you keep quiet you may forever regret it. You will always wonder what might have been. Good Luck!
2007-03-08 07:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice that i can give you is to just let him know how you feel. If you have heard that he likes you then there must be some truth in it somewhere. If he doesn't like you in that way then he will just tell you and you can still be friends...It's not good to keep your feelings bottled up inside. Even if you are scared of what will happen.
2007-03-08 15:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by pinkbabiesr07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been friends with a guy for 3 years (!!) and he hasn't told you that he likes you - well, that means he doesn't like you.
Sounds like your friend was playing with you. Don't say anything otherwise you'll embarrass yourself and really regret it.
No guy would keep quiet about liking a girl for 3 years. Geesh.
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2007-03-08 15:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he's paying attention, you've got to tell him indirectly that you really like him at first and within the next few conversations you have with him (on that day or in the next few days so he's got enough time for the weight of the message to sink in) tell it to him straight how he feels. If he responds negatively, its time to move on. If he responds positively, congratulations.
2007-03-08 15:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by Cnl Delta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, this boy here may or may not like u, but dont say anything to him, if he turns out to not like u unlike wut those ppl are telling u and u say something, he might actaully break all that u have and u will lose a perfectly good freindship so listen to me and wait till he says soemthing? why the rush? plus play hard to get, the guy will get emotionally closer to u that way and u will mean much more to him than just a girl who he likes, but a girl who he worked hard to get , and plans on keeping her to him self, u will LOVE that feeling.....goodluck!
2007-03-08 15:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be honest with him and let him know what your feeling. If he don't like you back then that's life! Look at it this way everyone gets rejected at one time or another, even some more then others! Just be straight with him.
2007-03-08 15:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsay C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, of lot think about how will this affect your relationship with him. If ya'll do hook up then ya'll won't be friends any more and have to worry about everything one another do. But, if ya'll don't hook up and he hooks up with another girl then you are going to be haten on the other girl. So, what I would do is him that I like him and see what happens from there.
2007-03-08 15:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly. When a guys finds out a girl likes him, even if its awkward for a few days, the guy feels appreciated. Guaranteed he will warm up to you. Even if he doesnt, he'll tell you he just wants to be friends. In any case, your relationship with him isnt damaged. I say go for it! gl!
2007-03-08 15:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by Breaker's Lax Rules!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him hell ya guys love to be told how much they are liked and dont worry even if he doesnt feel the same he wont run away from you
2007-03-08 15:10:00 · answer #9 · answered by deeshamon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say u tell him tha truth how u feel and if he dont feel tha same way thats just a risk u have to take
2007-03-08 15:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by T!FF@NY R3Y3$! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋