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I will start from the start! at a point in my life i taugth i was gay i am 20 now... and my friend she was there for me hole way true it.. and now. i am in love with her! neer Felt this way about any one for the last 6 months she was on my mind 24/7 dibt see ger that mutch cosue she in england and i am not moveing there agean till june.. still have to tell her that.. and if i tell her that i am in love with her dont want to make thing wierd with us.. just love he rso mutch!! ta
2007-03-08 07:03:21 · 13 answers · asked by drkombmisack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry about bad spelling cant help it!
2007-03-08 07:09:21 · update #1
man if you tell her you in love with her you might lose her friendship al together ,she sounds like a really good friend that you can't afford to lose,sounds like you need to check out your emotion status get some help with your personal issues and work out who you are, and get the emotional stuff under control-if you are thinking of her 24/7 it might be a deep need that has to be addressed rather than love you have time don't leave it to late!!!good-luck
2007-03-08 07:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by lloydpaul2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First tell your friend that your moving to England and can`t wait to catch up on things.Secondly the best thing is to come clean and let her know that she has been a great friend to you but that you made a mistake your not gay and the one person you wanted was right under your nose the whole time.Inform her though that there is no pressure and you`ll understand if those feelings are only one sided and if she prefers to just be friends.Honesty is the best policy.........good luck.
2007-03-08 07:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, explain to her that your friendship is very important to you. The most important thing. Alot of times, the feelings are mutual and she is probably just fighting with herself on how to tell you the same thing. I'm sure she is getting some kinds of vibes that you are sending. She probably isn't that surprised. So, call her and chat with her and let it just come up in conversation. And you not going back till june gives you both plenty of time to talk without being uncomfortable in each others presence. Good luck, just be honest and be ok withy it if she dosn't feel the same. And remain friends no matter what.
2007-03-08 07:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by mommy to 2 year old triplets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need to make sure that your over thinking that you're gay. Don't mess with her feelings make sure that this what you want and not just another one of your phase. Also if you've had gay relationships that ended badly you give it another shot don't just run to her for some r&r cause stuff didn't work out with men...good luck!!
2007-03-08 07:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Chocolate Spice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your words are beautiful to read, thank you for sharing such an intimate reality you are discovering. I believe you have found the important aspect in love between two friends, the foundation you have both contributed to has merit for a lasting growth, I share in your joy. and you have found the treasure of an untarnished young heart in love, so delicate and beautiful. Thank You again for sharing.
2007-03-08 07:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that is 100% sure that it will work is .....you must gather some courage , and when you feel like a man , you go and tell her LIKE A REAL MAN that u love her .
(( it worked with me ))
but if she does not like u , and she says that she does not like u ........be strong and remember that there are 6billion people on the planet , u will get another chance , u are still young , and have many things to learn . good luck
2007-03-08 07:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by massismlkn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
purely tell her!! what's the worst which could ensue?? If she does not sense for you in a romantic way and he or she's any form of pal, it won't result your dating and if she does value l an identical way then yipeeeee!
2016-10-17 21:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure?
do you want to risk pushing your friend away
remember love can be found and lost in a short time
a real friend is still there for a life time
2007-03-08 07:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by ashymojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you meet up and see how things are. Then when the time is right tell her.
2007-03-08 07:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First learn how to type right.
Then just start talking to her more, get closer to her, then try to make a move.
2007-03-08 07:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Nic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋