girls woud u date a sugar daddy. men shud i do this?

Question

if a rich old man u thought was ugly wants to go out with u and spoil u and u could sure use the help.
he wants to buy u a new car buy u a new wardrobe and take care of u and already paid off like 2 of your small debts worth like 800 bux . he doesnt want sex (prolly cant get it up) but u think he just wants u on his arm. u know hes got the money .

woud u do it? be honest. im figthing with myslf on this.

all i can think is he would be a sugar daddy with no sex . do u think i shud do it. i like funny answers but i need a real answer pls im going crazy. hes a sweet man but i cant stnad to look at him. espeiclaly not kiss him. :(

thk you all for the answerz but tht is the prob i feel like if i turn him down its cuz hes ugly and im shallow but if i date him its cuz hes rich and im shallow
and he isnt like 90 or nothing just like 59 and a hed of grey hair!

Answer 1

No, I wouldn't do it. It depends on your morals and upbringing. There are a lot of women who could and not think twice about it. You need to be able to look at yourself in the mirror without thinking that you are disgusting for doing it. If you can do that, go ahead! I kind of think, since you asked the question, that you wouldn't really be happy with yourself if you did!

Answer 2

Yes you do need a serious answer but you already answered it for yourself when you wrote "I can't stand to look at him, especially not kiss him". That says you do not want to sell yourself to this man to hold his hand and make him feel virile again or to relive his misbegotten youth. You are young and deserve a life with young friends and new acquaintances. Having money is just like anything else, it gets boring after you are used to it and then have to come home to an older man who snores!! Don't take any more money from him. You need to have your own sense of self-respect no matter what other people think.

Some prostitutes sell their time and company when the client can't get it up too. They find it a blessed relief and a chance to rest their feet. Men talk to them about their problems or just love to talk dirty. No sex!

You don't think it's right and it's obvious by the tone of your question!! Let him buy some other girl that wants to sell her time on the open market. You have bigger fish to fry and a lot more on the ball and in your brain. Good Luck!! @8-)

Answer 3

I would probably word it differently. I would say to him you are happy to become really 'close friends' with him. I can imagine it would be hard when you dont find this man physically attractive, but if he is kind and a good natured person as you get to know him better you will see past the physical aspect. I think as long as he understands that you do not have any feelings for him in a romantic way, and your not taking your clothes off, and as long as he can afford to do these things for you, quite comfatablely, go for it. You will get crititism, expect that, but a girls gotta do, what a girls gotta do. Poor old thing probably just wants some company.

Answer 4

Well usually the whole thing with "sugar daddies" are that you don't have to be seen with them. Typically they want to look at your naked body, maybe give you oral because they truly can't get it up and if they can get it up, the don't have the stamina it takes for sex. You stroke him a bit, he does his oral, pays your bills gives you money and everyone is happy. I think I would do it, but I wouldn't let anyone see me doing it. I don't think I could be on his arm. Try to find a way that you can do what he wants and still keep a low profile. Only go to certain places with him and only once a week - same for any sexual entertainment he may want (trust me, he's going to want something, everyman wants a return on his investment) but keep it to a minimum. If he's desperate enough to pay your bills just to keep you around, he'll do whatever YOU say. You have the power here, because he'll either take the little you are giving him or have to have nothing at all. And if people say it's morally wrong to take money for sex, they are full of shi.t. Money is power and sex is power. Exchanging money for sex is only an exchange of power. It happens everyday...women (some on here who will call you a whore) get dressed up every Saturday night, hair done, nails done and exchange their sex for a $8 dollar movie and a $10 dollar chicken salad. It's the same thing. They are $18 dollar prostitutes who are lying to themselves and you are openly getting your financial needs taken care of and aren't fooling anyone, lying to him or yourself and are certainly not hurting anyone. So good luck.

Answer 5

Wow this is a tricky one. I would not do it for sure. Right now he's not asking you for anything but he probably will soon he can't just give you all this money & want nothing. Sounds really weird. You should be very careful. You wouldn't want to owe him anything in the future. Besides we all need money times are hard but wouldn't it be a lot more satisfing to look back & see you did it all yourself without the help of anyone?

Answer 6

...nobody says you can't do this kind of thing darling...but I'd be dropping you quite a few notches in my "integrity and character" book if I even remotely knew you as my friend. I'm thinking low self esteemed women do this kind of thing all of the time...and basically just for the money...honey! Money will be helpful in life...no doubt,...but getting it this way just registers to me "golddigger" seriously. The woman who just left me recently was just one of these,types. She's gone now thank goodness. (high maintenance ya know) Is that how you want every man you meet to look at and think of you darling? I'll take love over money every time honestly. The money I make for myself darling?...I'll spend it on a woman surely...the right way. If money buys you babe?...you're just "a hooker" to me. You can do better then this darling...wouldn't you think?

Answer 7

NO!!! Just using him to pay your bills isn't a good substitute for love. What if you meet someone else...the bottom line is No!! That would be wrong and gross. Especially if he is ugly and you can't even stand to look at him. You have needs and just him paying the bills and buying you a few things isn't enough.

Answer 8

So you would charge a lonely old man for your company.
Congradulations, you just single handedly set the entire female race back 50 years. It is a shame there are few REAL women left in the world.

Answer 9

Just date him, even if you think he is ugly, who know he might have a great personality. About the money, don't stay with him just for that...only if you enjoy his company.

Answer 10

NEVER. I don't like the thought of guys buying me stuff when it isn't my birthday. I can earn my own money, and I would much rather do that than have a guy in my life.