lets say a guy and girl really like eachother a lot but they live really far away..and they dont talk much.
the girl happens to be going to college by where he lives soon and hes really excited, cause obviously they both like eachother a lot.
is this bad that they dont talk on a regular basis? is it because its hard to talk and they dont want to develop anything more, and they rather just wait to be together ?
2007-03-08 06:56:58 · 13 answers · asked by rachel a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is a two sided question. it may work out and may not it depends on how much you like each other and weather you're both willing to work on the relationship to make it develop into something more. good luck
2007-03-08 07:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not bad at all. Long distance conversations can get very expensive. Even if contact via the net is establisbed it could be a distraction from other things that are going in their respective areas i. e. school work. If they two already like each then both have already subconciesely decided to develope more. It is obvious from the excitement that the lack of communication has not affected how they feel about each other. Actually this lack of communication may work to their advantage when the girl actually arrives in his hometown becasuse imagine how many date are going to be established to "get to know each other". After all at least you will have a lot to talk about. Good luck in college and with the relationship.
2007-03-08 15:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's because the two are really into each other but not enough for constant contact. The excitment comes because of the idea of them but if alot of time was spent together the excitment would fade, the newness would ware off. maybe the two are trying to hold on to the newness and the energy of the excitment as long as possible. Making it more special each time they talk. Or ,maybe the two just don't know what to say to each other and they don't want to risk sounding dumb so they avoid it.
2007-03-08 15:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by mommy to 2 year old triplets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be bad, they may find out that they don't have as much in common now as they did then. They may have grown in seperate directions. OF course they could find out that they have really been missing each other and have loads to talk about. They only way to find out is to get together and see.
2007-03-08 15:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by kerfitz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, some people do not like talking on the phone so. I think they would just rather wait to be together and it will be the greatest feeling ever. ;)
2007-03-08 15:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by amberlynne_2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wen that gurl gets in town go to like the mall movies even dinner to catch up on alot of things an talk more since she will be going to college near that guy
2007-03-08 15:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by sexililcheerleader4u2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont analyze live and enjoy. guy should be the caller don't stress what will be will be if you want to hang out 2gether than you will
Go with the Flow
2007-03-08 15:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsey H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with the whole sinerial. I think they just might have a secret romance already going, and when they do get closer-thing will probably blossom!
2007-03-08 15:01:48 · answer #8 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. its hard to find time to talk to anyone who lives far away. every day life intervenes. hopefully when the girl goes to college, they will find their happy ever after
2007-03-08 15:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like this relationship will work out because they never see or talk and still like eachother
hey maybe its love
2007-03-08 15:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by i'm a rebel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋