I have known this guy over the net and i have communicated with him by phone and everything...the way he talks to me is soo sweet and nice...and he told me that he loves me a month ago and he asked he if he can marry me....when we first started talking on msn we used to stay on for from 9pm until 6am continues chat and he doesnt sleep with out me saying goodnight to him and stuff ...and he gets all serious when it comes to marriage and if my parents will accept him...but 2day i told my friend to test him by calling him and flirt with him and to see his reaction...she asked him how old is he.... he said 18 but he told me that he is 20 ...she asked if he has a girl and he said NO.... i am just not sure if he loves me or nott
if anyone has an answer plzzz help me...with a quick answer
2007-03-08 06:56:10 · 23 answers · asked by DeViLiShEyEzZ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The internet is an interesting place... you have to keep one thing in mind when talking to people online - People can be WHOEVER they want to be online. I know you have feelings for this guy, but since your friend tested him (and he failed) you may want to rethink this relationship. Slow things down, maybe actually meet him (in a neutral place) and find out who he really is. Good luck!
2007-03-08 07:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is know way to determine if a guy loves you through a internet relationship. Why don't you try considering meeting guys at the mall or even a supermarket.
2007-03-08 07:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Cherri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as many have said before me...it is the Internet you can be who you want to be. You haven't even met him in person & he already "loves" you. To me that would be kind of weird. Obviously he just thinks of things as fun. I wouldn't take things seriously when it comes to internet stuff. Its cool to talk to people on here but as far as relationships...that would be a big negative because you honestly never know who you are talking to.
hope I helped.
2007-03-08 07:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by kimijean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online relationships are usually dishonest. How much can u really love a person you've never met. I don't know why u took this relationship so seriously but I hope u can stop talking to him.
2007-03-08 07:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get serious you still have to ask after testing him...get out there in the real world and meet someone you can look in the eye.
2007-03-08 07:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by ste.phunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As i dont know him, i am going to say this is the net, people are just names on a screen and a voice on the phone, sometimes it is best to leave it at that.
2007-03-08 07:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Quiet One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest to break any relation or communication that you have with him. And move on like you never met him, first of all if you dont know him in person i dont know how you could want to marry him.
2007-03-08 07:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by DRLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
internet can definitely not determine true love!! Better off being in person because how well someone can talk and type doesn't mean that they love you, it could mean that they're just playas
sorry, drop the relationship thing now before you get to into it
2007-03-08 07:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by lovin' it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl he loves u , but thats not the point here,
he loves u yes, yes, YES!!, but dont smile yet, he is not the guy for u, he is a cheater since this is so0o0o0o0o0o obvious, and once a cheater always a cheater, listen to me girl, dont let guyz like this rule over u, u dont need this ish in ur life, trust me
2007-03-08 07:03:41 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but no...obviously he is a liar...and it seems that he is just playin you on the Internet. Have you even meet him yet...Stay Away...he could be 60 years and you would never know it!!!
2007-03-08 07:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by Punkgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋