I am a 29 year old girl w/ a funny question. When we girls were younger guys would always "finger" us. Now that Im older I find that men rarely do this. I know when u r younger and not having sex it is the best way to pleasure a women, but it still feels good now!! Im wondering why men don't do it and ladies do you agree w/ me? I found my last 2 boyfriends hardly ever doing it unless I asked. Guys, do you not like to do it? Whats the deal?? I think its the best way to turn a girl on!!!
2007-03-08 06:52:53 · 12 answers · asked by emkmusic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmmm.....maybe you've been picking the wrong boyfriends! LOL
2007-03-08 06:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that today's young male grows up in an "instant gratification" enviroment. Fast food, microwaves, IM's, txt mess, cell phones. There is little or no delay in anything. As a result there is no need to "work up" to sex. Fingering was a way to "test the waters" back then (I am 30). You find out how far she will let ya go, then it also gets her hot so she is on the same page as you. Todays kids idea of romance is "a/s/l", or "let's hookup", or "when ya gonna let me hit that" (I almost died when I found out that is what passes for a pickup line these days)!
Girls also are more agressive and empowered (the whole girlpower movement over the last 15yrs or so). Back then you actually had to debate it with yourself and felt better if the guy "led" you into a sexual situation. Today's girl is just as likely to do you as shake your hand depending on her mood. I once offered to take a girl to dinner and a movie only to have her say, "Why not put that money toward a room?"
In closing I would say that women are making it easier these days; and men are basicly horny creatures. If we know we can get it without the effort-we won't make the effort. But as an "old schooler" myself I still like the power that one finger can give you over a woman. It's magic!
2007-03-08 07:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by D4gotten1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the final analysis right this is that he cheated on you. you be responsive to approximately it and he nonetheless did not supply up. in actuality, he's guffawing approximately it. And he attacked you. My advice is purely %. up your toddler and go away. you will discover somebody who will certainly appreciate you. not all men are like that. he's unquestionably not a classic guy, he's an *** who does not should have you ever in his existence. And if it makes you sense greater effective, remind your self that if he cheated on you with this lady, probability is he will cheat on her with yet another lady. Then she'll be responsive to precisely the way you sense outstanding now. Get you and your toddler out of there. good success hun.
2016-10-17 21:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....it depends on the particular woman really. Every woman I've ever met and had sexual relations with has been different in her wants and desires in bed. I'm thinking all of us silly men are farely intrusive and probably haven't quite got it figured out how you like us to do you quite seriously. We wanna do things right by you of course,...and your pleasure is our main concern here too. Not all women want to be fingered or intruded in this particular fashion anyways. I say show and tell time is a nice way of showing a man how you like things done to you sweety. It'll be different probably for any other woman though. I say show us how you like it done to you darling,...and then we'll show you how we like to be done too. Nice trade off huh? Show us baby!!!...we're just simple minded men otherwise. Have fun!
2007-03-08 07:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 29 year old woman that enjoys it as well. This is a really good question.
2007-03-08 07:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by Cherri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love to do it, it is the best way to stimulate the g-spot and drives the woman wild. It is especially intense if you do it after making love, it can drive her to several more multiple orgasms.
2007-03-08 06:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely love doing this and have had no complaints from an ex girlfriend, especially if you really know what your doing, you can really pleasure her by doing this, you know your doing it right if she starts moaning and telling your to do it harder, from my experience.
2007-03-08 06:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol... i agree. it is the best, and my man does it. I just grab his hand and put it there. I don't know why, but that's a great question.
2007-03-08 06:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll do more then finger you! Now bend over and grab your ankles and get ready to scream
2007-03-08 06:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by PrimEvil 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I still do it and my wife loves it! Suggest you tell your partner you like it or guide him to you.
Have fun!
2007-03-08 07:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by scpathfinder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋