I have been in one serious relationship and that was 2 years ago. I'm working, about get a second job, in school 24/7, about to start community hours at the hospital and still have times on my hands. And during that time I look for a guy who I can be respected by, have fun, have a best friend, and just feel comforted. But, all I've found are guys who play too many games. I'm ready for a serious relationship and to have fun at the same time. How is it possible to find that guy with great qualities? I'm bored and need some fun!
2007-03-08 06:33:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to stop looking for love.
It'll never come if you're looking for it.
It happens when you least expect it.
Trust me. It happened to me.
God has a plan for you and will bring you the right one in His time. Just have faith in Him.
♥
2007-03-08 06:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm... did you read what you wrote? A serious relationship requires TIME to cultivate and your time is seriously committed to serious endeavors. You might be ready for something serious only because you don't have the time to date. And speaking from one workaholic to another, a serious relationship requires that you make the relationship a priority -- not that you let it take over your life, mind you. But it requires a lot of patience, effort and time. Right now, can you say that you have room for the relationship that you want? Get you and your life squared away -- since you don't have the responsibility of a relationship, it's great that you take this time to focus on you. For fun, go out with your friends and date! With everything that you have going for you, serious men will be beating down your door in no time!
2007-03-08 06:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by ladylee1230 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you are asking too much. I guess the first thing I would suggest is re-examine what it is that attracts you to a person. If all the guys you are finding turn out to be duds then you could very well be attracted to a certain personality type with a negative impact.
Be more careful with who you date/talk to.
What I learned to do is write down certain traits/qualities that are really important to me. In a non interviewing style I ask possible candidates these questions. Their answers determine whether I date them or not. Ha, I know that sounds strange (perhaps) but I'm getting too old to play games.
2007-03-08 06:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me those mern are out there I'm one of them. The ones that you were messing with were not either Mr. Right or a man for that matter. Just let it happen and don't try to force it. i'm 30 and never been married and I have no kids and I'm still waiting for the day that a special woman walks into my life. So if I can wait you can wait just have your fun on your own until someone can catch you and keep up.
Good luck
2007-03-08 06:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually miss not always. Honestly I am Mr. Right, I never hurt women because I have never been in a relationship. Ill list out my personality to help you understand. Im kind, loving, caring, sweet, loyal, friendly, romantic, Love to help people I hate violence and women beaters. Im different than all the other men. I would never cheat on my girl and I would never want to hurt her. Dont give up hope you might find your Mr. Right just have faith! Good Luck Miss!
2007-03-08 06:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking in the wrong places and in the wrong kind of people. Many women have a habitual attraction to the same type of guy over and over again and it just wont work out ever. You can't try the same thing and expect different results.
Try someone different, not just someone else.
2007-03-08 06:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look is like this just do wt u have to do gurl for get about a man right now an da guy is gona get to u by him self bt dnt get all into a guy hella quick just have friends an wen u see thiers a man that u really like an u see it could work take a chabe bt right now just work on makin ur money
2007-03-08 06:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to move to San Antonio, TX and meet more guys like me and my friends. We all just agreed to stop the clubbing and screwing around thing and just go to school and meet a decent girl to hang with. Pretty corny for our crowd of guys but we agreed on it.
2007-03-08 06:41:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so desperate, in your desperation you are grabbing onto whatever you find hopping they will fullfill your fantasies. Stop expecting permanance in every relationship with a guy and start enjoying being with someone just because you like their company.
2007-03-08 06:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then I would say he was never Mr right to begin with. I don't think it's up to you to find the guy now, i do believe it's time for that lucky guy to find you.
2007-03-08 06:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋