What do girls want guys for? What do guys do to make a girl feel special? What do girls not like about guys of today?
Girls please help the guys out a bit and spill the beans!
2007-03-08 06:28:18 · 26 answers · asked by Superman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls want guys who want them for who they are and are committed to them.
It's the little things that count that make a girl feel special... like leaving a voicemail just saying "Hi" or "I love you", always having a hand available to hold HER hand, etc. Basically, just letting the girl know that she exists.
Girls today don't like guys who forget about them or just start ignoring them or leading them on.
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Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot,
Who calls you back when you hang up on him,
Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead,
Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats,
Who holds your hand in front of his friends,
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.
Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "...that's her."
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LEAVE HER CUTE TEXT MESSAGES.
KISS HER IN FR0NT 0F Y0UR FRIENDS.
TRUST HER 0VER EVERY0NE ELSE.
TELL HER SHE L00KS BEAUTIFUL.
L00K HER IN THE EYE WHEN Y0U TALK T0 HER.
TELL HER STUPID J0KES T0 MAKE HER LAUGH.
LET HER MESS WITH Y0UR HAIR.
MESS WITH HER HAIR.
JUST WALK AR0UND WITH HER.
INCLUDE HER IN ALL THINGS Y0U D0.
WHEN SHE CRYS D0 WHATEVER IT TAKES T0 MAKE HER SMIlE.
F0RGIVE HER F0R HER MISTAKES.
L00K AT HER LIKES SHE'S THE 0NLY GIRL Y0U SEE.
TICKLE HER EVEN WHEN SHE SAYS ST0P.
H0LD HER HAND EVEN WHEN Y0U ARE AROUND Y0UR FRIENDS.
WHEN SHE STARTS SWEARING AT Y0U TELL HER Y0U L0VE HER.
LET HER FALL ASLEEP IN Y0UR ARMS.
GET HER MAD, THEN KISS HER.
TEASE HER & LET HER TEASE Y0U BACK.
STAY UP WITH HER ALL NIGHT WHEN SHES SICK.
WATCH HER FAV0RITE M0VIE WITH HER
KISS HER F0REHEAD.
GIVE HER THE W0RLD.
WRITE HER LETTERS.
LET HER WEAR Y0UR CL0THES.
WHEN SHES SAD, HANG 0UT WITH HER.
LET HER KN0W SHE'S IMP0RTANT.
LET HER TAKE ALL THE PH0T0S 0F Y0U SHE WANTS.
KISS HER IN THE RAIN.
CALL HER EVERY NIGHT.
AND WHEN Y0U FALL IN L0VE WITH HER, TELL HER.
AND WHEN Y0U D0 TELL HER. L0VE HER LIKE Y0U NEVER L0VED BEF0RE.
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2007-03-08 06:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is your lucky day cuz im gonna break it down for you lol
What do girls want guys for? every girl has their own reasons some are the same some different my reason for wanting a guy is because I must really like him enough to he has to carry himself well not be a bum/lazy must be nice and understanding, not tolerate $hit from anyone, dress nice, smell good, and most important be there for me when needed
What do guys do to make a girl feel special? THE LIL THINGS MEAN SOO MUCH guys just dont get it now a days roses,cards,etc... be sweet open the door for them make them feel like a princess and ur their prince we all want that the only girls that dont are either young,immature, or just want a man for only one thing his d1ck lol also when she has a problem listen and give ur opinion even if u dont care at least pretend to care or understand what shes going thru my now ex just sat there listened and all he could say is well uh i dont know what to tell you or uh im not a doctor how do i know thats just careless instead we wanna hear dont worry baby it will be ok or i understand what ur goin thru etc..
What do girls not like about guys of today? as listed above a guy that just doesnt care. A guy that is focused more on himself, his car, his friends, his work etc.. then on us all the time! A guy that is heartless, careless, emotionless, or just a a$$hole that is mean, a cheater, a player, also weird but true a guy that is too nice yeh were all nuts we like a balance of a good/bad guy most of the time and the worst is when a guy wins over the girls heart being the most sweet romantic caring lovable guy and then years down the line changes into a big careless, heartless, a$$hole when they know we love them too much to just leave them so they treat u bad good luck lol
But then again there are the girls that want guys for other reasons other then just being there for them and being sweet and romantic like i want they want $$$
2007-03-08 14:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could spill the beans sweety, but I'm not a typical girl of today. I am of the old world where Women are equall, but not pushy. Feminine without being seductively manipulating. Assured of who they are and what Great things they can do without fighting the Mans war!
I am a girl who doesn't believe submission is a nasty four letter word, but a word that takes the weight of the world off my shoulders.
I can tell you that every and all women really have one basic need. That need is to feel loved and cherished! Each woman fills that need differently so one womans idea of perfect isn't the same as any other!
You need to get to know the woman you want to please and find out what she specifically needs!
2007-03-08 14:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do we want a guy for?
Love, companionship, sex......eventually a husband.
What can you do to make us feel special?
Leave little notes in our car or taped to the bathroom mirror....book a massage for us out of nowhere just as a surprise.....send a sweet text message or email just thanking us for being your girl.......Give us PDAs (like a quick smooch in public or holding hands - Im not talking about groping or anything) and of course......flowers.
What dont I like about guys today: Theyre not gentlemen! No holding doors, opening my car door, etc. And usually its all about "hooking up" - which I'm totally not interested in. If thats all I wanted I could stay home and .....well.....you know. Guys today need to watch an old movie or something and see how MEN should treat their women! - Like treasures.
** And in turn, women should do the same for their men and not take them for granted. **
2007-03-08 14:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by sierraskyesmom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, superman, depends on the girl and how old you are. are you in middle school? a girl wants a guy who will be her friend and make her look good in the halls. are you in high school? a girl wants a guy who will spend lots of time (and probably money) with her and who she can have lots of fun with. in college, well, i know lots of girls who just want someone they can go home with after last call. but for me, college was the time for really finding someone who shared values with me and was interested in real commitment. someone you could be real with. that's what made me feel special. also, there is a real lack of maturity among men today. and altho most women will marry an immature guy, they will become pestering and grouchy wives because of it.
2007-03-08 14:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by nik 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok um i want a guy because i want a family and i dont want to raise a child alone if i dont have to. Guys these days dont do much to make a girl feel special but sometimes they are sweet and stick up for us. I dont like guys who cheat thats my BIGGEST thing. Other then that who knows?
2007-03-08 14:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by I love America♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I want a man who can be a man
But can also pass up a fight
I want a man who Isn't afraid to cry at something sad
But I dont want a baby who cries if he breaks a nail
I want a man who plays a sport
I want a man who will care about my opions
I want a man that will wait till marriage to get into my pants
I want a man who can just stay home on a friday night and not go out
I want a guy who Isn't afraid he loves me around his friends
I want a man who will work out with me
I want a man who will tell me I m sexy when I think I look like crap
I want a man who doesnt ignore me but calls me everyday
I want a guy who can be romantic
I want a man who can cook
But I also want a man who knows when to just take me to Burger King
I want a Man who can snuggle
I want a man that loves me
I want a man to tell me Im beautiful and sexy and hot but mostly beautiful
I want a man who isn't afraid to just pack up and do something fun and outragous
2007-03-08 14:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by prnszcrtny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what girls want- most girls want a guy that is honest, caring, good looking, easy to talk to,.. they want someone who is old fashioned (who will open the doors for them...)
to make a girl feel special you just need to treat her with respect. you can also suprise her with little things, like notes, cards, flowers once in a while. phone her just to see how her day is going. If she has something to say LISTEN to her...
girls do not like how guys try to pressure girls into things (ie-physical stuff when they are not ready), they don't like how lots of guys are superfical, how when they are with you they will still check out other chicks, how they seem to be only interested in big boobs..
hope that helps you out a bit..
2007-03-08 14:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
calling them beautiful and not hot
little kisses mean more than the soppy ones
wear something decent instead of saggin your pants on a date
call when you say youre going to call
call even if you didnt say you were going to
treat us like people not objects to be won
cook dinner one night
do the dishes for us
massage!!!
play with our hair
tickle us
send us a couple of choclates or roses to work one day
tickle us
call just to ask how we're doing
leave a little note somewhere that says something sweet
its not that hard, we like being treated like we matter to you. look at everything that i said and keep that in mind. you'll be fine.
MOST IMPORTANTLY
treat her like you couldnt be without her
2007-03-08 14:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by elementamigo92 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I love how looking at everyones answers how all girls want
SEX.
NOT true. What about you guys. Half the reason you asses have trouble finding a girl is because if they don't give you sex you don't want them.
You guys are arrogant assholes and need to get over yourselves.
Not all girls look for sex. They look for love, companionship, honestly, loyalty and trust.
You guys NEED to think with the head on your shoulders not the freaking ones in your pants.
2007-03-08 14:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋