help please?

Question

I have an older sis she is smart pretty and thin i am ugly fat and dumb her face is clear i have zits every one likes her no one likes me she is perfect i am ruined she has all of these friends who give her alot of presents on every special occation i dont get anything!!!!!!!!!! i can tell my mom and dad think she will get far in life while i am a waste of time!!!! my mom likes me beter but my dad likes her beter!!!!!!! also she has a big chest and mine is flat!!!!!!! help

Answer 1

Sweety-you are so down on yourself! Surely you have some wonderful qualities and attributes that your sister doesn't. Don't be so hard on yourself. You will blossom and your time will come. Join some groups or activities and get involved in something away from your sister.
P.S. The size of your chest will get you nowhere in life except maybe the center of Playboy.

Answer 2

sweetie the first thing you need to do is try to develope some self esteem. you have to love yourself before others can and will love you. beauty is far more than looks. you're too young to worry a/b all those things. i would want someone to love me for me and not what i look like. give yourself time to mature and develope. trust me everything will follow soon enough. i was small breasted all my life and as i got older they grew and well let's just say that i buy most of my bras on line b/c they don't carry them in the store and they are natural no surgery. trust me a person can be really pretty but have an ugly personality. if you want to improve your looks do it for yourself not other people. there's an old TLC song called "Unpretty" you should listen too it's a/b self esteem and well it helped me out alot. i felt the same way growing up just not the sister part and guess what i've been married for 5 yrs now to a very handsome guy and guess what even though he gets a lot of offers he's happy to come home to his short thick wife. take a look at all the so-called pretty people and look at how unhappy they are or were,(anna nicole, britney,lidnsey,paris....) so being pretty doesn't always mean better. they have lots of things to help your skin like proactive and such but to get you started try rubbing fresh lemon juice over your face in the morning and at night that's what a friend of mine has started doing and her face is starting to clear. i would also suggest some counseling rather it be individual or maybe even family b/c it looks like this is also a family issue. no parent should ever pick favorites. i wish you the best. take care.

Answer 3

You my dear are a very important person yourself.Your sis may be pretty and smart but that certainly doesn't make her perfect.Depending on how old you are,the zits will eventually go away.In the meantime...ask your mom to take you to the doc. as there are many things out there that can help you with this problem.Over the counter meds are not always reliable and sometimes do more harm than good.Go and see your doc.for the proper help.
Eat a healthy diet and get exercise.Amazing what these can do for you.
Work hard in school and enjoy the friends you do have.You can get as far as you yourself want to in this life.Education counts in a major way as to how far you get.
You need to get confidence in yourself. Have you talked to your parents about how you feel?You should!!! You may be surprized at how this will work out for you if you do that and I think it's time you do.Don't keep everything bottled up inside you.If you feel you can't talk to your parents then please talk to a close family member or family friend and your can talk with your school counsellor.Someone will be there to help you.
For goodness sake don't worry about having a big chest as that can be a hinderence too.Way too much is made about how people look nowdays.Just be yourself and be happy.
I will be thinking about you and wish you well.You'll be in my prayers and I hope all works out for the best for you.

Answer 4

If you think your fat work out
then go on a diet and try to join groups at your school
make new friends be nice to everyone
if you have a problem with acne
get oxy or some sort of acne pad from walmart
theres nothing you can do about being flat but
their are enough people who will like you even if you are flat
maybe you should see a psychologist to their annoying but they listen and my friends psychiatrist helped her alot

Answer 5

Exercise everyday like jogging around the block
Skip meals. Eat 2 times per day than 3 times per day
Dont eat until you're full
Eat fruits at night if your hungry.
Drinks lots of water and stop all the fast food and chocolate.
I found this on this website. There are more tips and info on how to get rid of double chin

Answer 6

You need to understand that it's not all about how you look on the outside, it's about who are. So maybe your sister is more popular then you, but I bet you're closer to you friends (even though you might not have that many) then she is with hers. If this is really bothering you then maybe you should sit your sister down and talk with her about it, tell her how you feel, and who knows, she could have the answer to your problems. Plus you might want to tell your parents that they're making you feel a little unwanted. Hope everything works out!

Answer 7

Tell your parents and guidence councilar how u feel. They can help u a lot better then strangers on the internet.

Answer 8

you are going through a faze. it will end at about 15 or 16. I went through it and now i am 19 and have guys all over me. if your sister has it, chances are you will too. you will be okay.

Answer 9

Psychologist.