How Do you know you are in Love with someone?

Question

How do you know you are in love with someone? how do you know that person is the right one for you? How do you know you are going to marry that person in the future? What do you feel like when you find the right person you are going to marry? How do you know help?

Answer 1

Love is a biblical mandate and is foundational to a successful marriage. I'm convinced every reasonably healthy person is equipped to love others the way God designed. You choose to love someone else by putting their needs above your own. It's a commitment of your will.

Affection, however, is a step beyond love. Affection takes the loving relationship between a man and woman in marriage into the deeper realm of tender expressions that result in feelings of closeness, passion, and security. Affection takes work because it requires knowledge of what makes the other person tick.

You show affection when you perceive and appreciate what your spouse needs and meet those needs in a way he or she can understand. Affection results in marital contentment, intimacy, satisfaction, anticipation, and joy all wrapped into one package.

• Affection isn't sexual, but it naturally leads to sexual satisfaction.

• Affection isn't time, but it requires time to accomplish.

• Affection isn't communication, but without communication there can be no affection.

• Affection isn't romance, but it typically involves romantic spontaneity, creativity, and fun.

Moreover, when affection is present in your relationship, you just know it. If you don't feel it, you probably don't have it. Here's my definition of affection:

Affection is the kind of love that leaves you feeling close, safe, and cared for. In marriage, you feel the passion, and the loving acts become person specific. Affection is also important between parent and child. An affectionate family makes a child feel close, safe, and cared for as well. Affection must be an ingredient in all healthy personal relationships, including those with friends and extended family.

The Bible describes love in terms of action, not feelings. Look at the familiar description of love from 1 Corinthians 13, and notice all of the actions required:

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails” (1 Corinthians 13:4-8a NIV).

I like to say (though it may be grammatically flawed) that affection is “love as actions ” —actions that leave your spouse feeling really good about you and your marriage. Affection is one of the out-workings of love: Love is the commitment and the action, and affection is the safe, secure feeling that results. Strong marriages thrive when both the behavior of love and the feelings of affection are present. This “love as actions” is what moves you the eighteen inches from your head to your heart:

• Love is patient. Affection is empathetic.

• Love is kind. Affection is tender.

• Love is not rude. Affection thoughtfully apologizes for its words.

• Love is not self-seeking. Affection rubs the back of a discouraged spouse.

• Love does not delight in evil. Affection carefully and privately uncovers sin and helps the person back onto his feet.

• Love never fails. Affection under-girds and confirms your unfailing love for your spouse.

Answer 2

That's a big question. Most of the time, you just feel it. You feel like this person really is your best friend, you can tell them anything. You trust them completely, and you know they will keep you safe. They really care, and show you. They keep trying when things go wrong. You can tell just by a look, or a touch. You don't always marry the person you love. You may have "several" loves, before settling. Dating is so that you can see what you want in someone.

Answer 3

ur first question
when u cannot stay without looking or talkign to a person, when u feel u cannot cheat a person, when u feel u like all the person does and u feel its cute. when u feel this person cares for u and u care for him. u see he is understanding. u like every lil thing he does. u get hurt if he is hurt.

second question
u know what ur character is and what kind of a person u wud want to live with if at all u get married. so u see all gud matching common habbits, hobbies, tastes sometimes it also depends on religion and if ur parents wud say yes to this person.

third question
going to get married to the same person is up to u if u r very sure of not leaving him no matter what. even if the whole world adn ur parents say no. that is only if the boy is positive to get married to u. and u feel just talking and going around is enough adn u want to settle.

Answer 4

Hi doll...when you're in love, you see your loved one as a part of and in all things and all people. You become filled with love, life and hope.

The person is right for you if you bring out the best in one another and encourage each other to grow.

The future can change very quickly and easily so I don't want to mislead you by giving a solid answer but when fate is involved via soul contacts, you know......you may see this in your "dreamtime" states of consciousness.

When you see your loved one as one with all life, you're experiencing a sense of merging.This is done on a spiritual level. I'm talking about when you kill a moth or spider and you begin to experience guilt because you realise that in essence, you just killed a part of your beloved. Only those with this capacity of love will understand what I've just stated.

All the very best to you and your beloved. My wish for you is a happily ever after....and yes....it is possible. All things are possible with love, faith and intention. :P

Answer 5

First of all if you love somebody u feel to see that person everytime. Whenever u met ur heart beats without saying a word. Whatever that person does you love that action. You try to look good and smart. Breaks no. mirrors looking on to it.
Try to do things that person likes.
Every person have their own dream of their life partner. Unless you talk and discuss u will not know that persons attitude. You need to talk like friend and side by side u have to judge your requirement, whether that person is fit for u or not. Not complete but I can say if 80% to 90% of behaviour matches your dream than it is ok. But dont get blind in love. Keep ur eyes and ear open afterall u have to spend ur whole life with that person.

Answer 6

Keeping these many doubts in mind its better not to love some one i think, their may be 100 reasons to dislike or hate a person but the one reason is enough to love or like someone. I love is a feeling arises from heart nobody can say that how the love happens. hope u got the answer

Answer 7

"He loves me - he loves me not" is easily solved with a freshly plucked daisy ... but how do you know if you love him?
Instructions

* STEP 1: Clarify what love is for you. Write down all your thoughts and feelings about what a loving relationship would be like for you.
* STEP 2: Distinguish between love and lust or infatuation. Lust is an intense sexual desire. Infatuation refers to the initial stage of a relationship, when you are "crazy" about him, but this feeling usually fades over time.
* STEP 3: Ask other people how they define love or know if they love someone.
* STEP 4: Write down how you do feel about him. For example: you enjoy his company, have similar interests, feel safe, trust him, think he is attractive, etc.
* STEP 5: Think about how well the two of you relate to each other. For example: How well do you communicate with each other? How do you deal with conflict? Do you bring out good or bad parts of each other? Can you show different sides of yourself?
* STEP 6: Ask yourself if you see and accept him as a whole person. Love isn't just loving the parts of him you like, but choosing to love him overall.

Tips & Warnings

* The infatuation phase of a relationship typically lasts about six months. You may think you are in love and he is perfect for you. It often takes more time to tell if you are truly compatible and whether you can really love the whole person, good and bad.
* Read books on the subject of love. Wise people have been writing about it for hundreds of years. In the bookstore, look under psychology, spirituality or philosophy.

Answer 8

Its very Difficult To Answer Dont U Think There R Too Many Question, Well All The Best

Answer 9

It is your approach and the response you get every time. Next your settlement in life with Him has to give a happy forethought. If you are real true lover and dedicated to be a sincere then only you expect to get married. All this comes only by experience and mutual understandings and discussions of love and life.

Answer 10

Hi What a wonder ful question

I am very much say ans this question because now I am fale on love so I know the real happy and pain.

When love one or you love any one it a mazic of dreems or real to you feel in Tay Time and more in Night time. if she or he give anything like hirbin ticket cholate,icecrem empty cub ect they are more value of lover.

But the same time your lover love your mind or body careful watch becase many of betterfly only wany honey when it tasted it after fly other flower.

so with help of parents you are grown with your action those are affected the society. so think he is real or real. and discuse with your close family friends they are seacrch other siede of the lover he is sutiable or not

do you know true love only live in heart but we change our minds in social live otheers like a toy life

yours new care friend
fall on love siva.
Pondicherry.