ok here goes my boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and everything is usually great we never fight or nothing we just have a disagreement every now and then maybe 4 in the last year we tell each other we love each other and we cant stay mad at one another for a long amount of time he is 50 i am 28 age to me dont mean much as long as the two of you are happy but I am the type I always treat him good I cook and clean and do his laundry help pay the bills and everything I always try to make him happy and stuff he tells me I am nuts but says its only meant in a good way that he liked me that way I just say things to make him laugh and 90%of the time it works but he hurt me really bad last night I went to bed and he told me he loved me and I told him that I was crazy about him and that noone would ever take his place he said oh shut up you are just being a silly little girl but thats ok your my silly little girl for one that made me upset cus its like he was mocking my feeling
2007-03-08 06:09:49 · 7 answers · asked by poohbear27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know if i am overreacting or what but i feel like i am nothing but a joke to him is this wrong to feel this way
2007-03-08 06:10:31 · update #1
I'm sure he does love you, but I think he sees your relationship much more lightly than you do. You probably see yourselves growing old together and living happily ever after. He probably sees you being happy today and tomorrow, and maybe next week. After that, who knows? Not that age should matter, but age is often linked to what people want out of relationships. Because of this, perhaps you should get to know some younger guys, who also want to grow old together. Good luck, and enjoy life!
2007-03-08 06:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by oj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He realizes that he's lucky...and he believes his luck will run out. He will be ready to retire in 15 years or so, and youll just be hitting your sexual peak in your early 40's.
You are his young plaything and he knows that (at least he thinks) you'll be gone, because you can't really have enough in common to last in his mind. So he will enjoy it wile he can without getting too emotionally attached.
2007-03-08 14:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ron K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the question? It sounds like your sugar daddy's right...you are a silly little girl. And you use too many words to make your point.
2007-03-08 14:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by dave_cooke1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Face it in 10 years he won't be able to control his bladder. He knows you won't love him then. Pee is not sexy from a wrinkled old man.
I don't love you because you have no idea how to puncuate a sentence. He probably hates you for the same reason.
2007-03-08 14:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
what was the tone of his voice that is what you have to factor in here. I think that he was joking around when he said it but you have to think of the tone.
2007-03-08 14:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just playing..
You are over-reacting..
You age difference is not a problem...
2007-03-08 14:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are trippin
2007-03-08 14:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by Hi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋