i can't seem to forget the hurt someone around me caused. i have these grudges i just can't let it go and it wheighing me down. this person is still in my life (boyfriend) should i let him go? and then i'll forget???? yes ive spoken to him about this he says i worry about the wrong things.
2007-03-08 06:06:23 · 4 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my opinion is to let him go...if u cannot work through your issues and he doesnt want to help you then its not worth you wasting your time being depressed....go out and start having fun and forget about him
2007-03-08 06:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to be with him,, you will have to forgive him and make your peace .... but you may also be in the right train of thought when you say you should just leave... obviously he has done something to really hurt and upset you for you to even doubt your relationship. and if there is nothing else you get from what I've said listen to this don't let him tell you there is something wrong with you for feeling the way you do... it might just be an easy way out for him than to just admit there is something wrong with him
2007-03-08 06:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by live in the magic of life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant forgive him then you need to let him go. A relationship is based on love and trust. I dont know if you will ever forget, thats up to you. Have you ever done something and wanted forgivness? Is he worth forgiving? Do you trust he is really sorry?
Only you can choose to forgive him.
2007-03-08 06:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by Navulam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it is bothering you that bad you need to be alone and think aloud what are the positive and the negative abotu what u are feeling and then decide if you really want that apart of your life
2007-03-08 06:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by shyshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋