now they go to church and bible study and things and sometimes go for months with out calling. when i call them i feel as im being rushed....what gives? seems like we were closer before they became christians. that cant be the case can it.?
2007-03-08 05:55:49 · 16 answers · asked by icecreamheadache420 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
My sister and I are estranged because she is a member of a cult. She would rather worship its supreme leader than have a cup of tea with her closest childhood chum. I have not met her leader and have no wish to as he has deluded a dear and sweet person into emotionally abusing her intimate family members. She says this "Jesus" guy is more important than us.
2007-03-08 06:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by voodooprankster 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My aunt and uncle are definitely like what you described since joining the Protestant church. Because my immediate family doesn't follow an organized Christian religion, my aunt told my Mom that she didn't think that we all had anything in common outside of blood until we accepted god as our savior for anything would be sac religious. Personally I don't hold it against them, they can believe whatever they want. But I have my own values and believes and if I can respect theirs but they can't respect mine then I would say it's their loss. I have other family to hang out with.
I think that you should address what is occurring head on and then if they still are distant get you and your kids involved in things you enjoy without them, eventually they'll figure out that religion can be a part of their life, but not consume it to the point where they lose sight of everything else. If you are religious why not just join them??? Think about the values you want your family to have and make sure to give your kids a dose of those as well.
2007-03-08 14:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible your parents are just new to faith, and excited about church "stuff."
In a way, it can be natural. It's like how sometimes people get a new boyfriend, run off and spend so much time with him that their friends feel neglected.
If they are really caught up in church activities, I would just address it with them. Christianity requires honoring and loving your famiy, and that is VERY important. That will not conflict with faith, as love is the center of Christian faith.
It's probable they are just busy and distracted. In that case I would gently *remind* your parents that you are still there, and would love to hear from them more often! lol
2007-03-08 14:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by peacetimewarror 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen cases where people become so excited by going to church and getting involved in activities that they forget to balance it with family time. I suggest you make an appointment to have lunch with them some Sunday after church and talk to them about it. If it doesn't help you may want to talk to their pastor. If he's a good pastor he'll understand and perhaps be able to help turn things around. Most pastors I've know are very family oriented and to have a memeber of their church ignoring family will bother them greatly.
2007-03-08 14:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by kaehya2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand either. Christianity brings families closer together in my opinion and even sparks an internal fire of evangelicalism. I would investigate this 'Christian' church with your husband...see about a babysitter, you might not want to expose your chlidren to this so called Christian church. satan has his schemes and even hides under the word of God to lead you away from the Truth.
When my mother came to Christ as her personal saviour, she became closer to all of us kids and stopped being selfish and self centered. She gives of herself and time so much more now.
2007-03-08 14:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is unusual. When I converted as a LDS I put more of an emphasis on family (Most of which are Roman Catholics and some Atheist). I hope they do not push you out of their life. What Church are they going to?
2007-03-08 14:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by Radictis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to them first off. And, just with most new things (whether it be activities, friends, clubs, or faith), sometimes it becomes all consuming. They may not even realize what they are doing. It's not the faith... is the excitment and dedication that comes with a new experience that has probably made them a little tunnel visioned.
2007-03-08 14:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by Switch Angel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can be the case. Their religion has become more important to them than you. I'd suggest you have a long chat with them. Not that it will do much good with born agains.
2007-03-08 14:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, Jesus and God come before Father, Mother, Sons and Daughters
You have to live with that fact
Sorry
Don't take PERSONAL offense
2007-03-08 14:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the Bible says Honor your mother and your father.....maybe you should try their church for a chance to see what becoming a Christian is all about then you will be more qualified to make a decision whether or not to see them more or less instead of blaming Christianity without knowing what you are blaming. Good luck I hope you find what you are looking for.
2007-03-08 14:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sparkling♥Jules♥ 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋