She wont let my girlfriend come over to the house. We are both in college and whenever we go home for breaks, I usually invite her over to the house but my mom won't let her in! My gf is really nice and friendly so why is my mom being such a douchebag?
2007-03-08 05:40:46 · 40 answers · asked by K R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw, i'm 20 years old and i dont live with my parents. i have my own house back near campus.
2007-03-08 05:45:01 · update #1
Oh yeah: I can call my mom a douchebag if i want to, so don't get even get into the specifics of that one because i don't want to hear it.
2007-03-08 05:46:55 · update #2
Oh yeah: I can call my mom a douchebag if i want to, so don't get even get into the specifics of that one because i don't want to hear it.
2007-03-08 05:47:19 · update #3
In my experience, mom's feel that no girl/woman is good enough for their son, and may have feelings of jealousy because she is no longer the "woman" in your life, my ex mother in law was like that, she treated me horribly and i was nice and polite to her yet she never came over to see us or accepted our invitations to dinner , or the kids birthdays, your mom is acting very immature and need to grow the hell up and accept the fact that she is not the only female in your life anymore and has no control over you
2007-03-08 06:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Worley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your mother is not ready to let you grow up. Are you the baby of the family? Have you tried talking with her about this? Maybe you should save a bit of extra cash (you and your girlfriend both) and stay in a cheap motel when you go home for visits.
2007-03-08 05:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm judging you by how you described your mother, the woman who carried you in her belly for nine months and suffered to give birth to you and you are calling her a "douchebag" because she has house rules that you don't like. Maybe she knows that you don't respect her and if you don't respect your own mother, then chances are that your girlfriend won't either.
2007-03-08 05:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by bombastic 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd think if you were of college age, you'd have a better vocabulary...and also not post a question about Family in the "Singles & Dating" category.
If you don't like your Mom's rules, then get your own place and keep your visits home short. Why not ask your mother why she won't allow the girl in...you didn't share your mom's feelings on company, or this girl in particular.
2007-03-08 05:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you're calling your mother a douchebag then maybe you deserve to be treated unfairly. But if you just talk to her calmly and explain that you're old enough to handle this and you'd like your mom to meet your gf, maybe she'll be more understanding. If you can be mature about it, she should see that she can trust you. But you have to be more respectful, or she'll never trust you. (That means no more name-calling.)Good luck!
Edit: I know you don't want to be told what not to do, but just trust me on this one, the name-calling won't earn her trust. I'm about the same age as you, I go through the same things. :)
2007-03-08 05:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by mrs. vader 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
respect your mother, it's her house, for some reason she doesn't like this girl and doesn't want her in the house. Let it alone and shut up, or move to your own place, (maybe with your friend). Oh i see, you got your "OWN" place, then take the little ho back to your fancie place by the campus, wouldn't be a BIT SURPRISED if you weren't still living off mommy & daddy anyways. do you work or are they paying your way? RESPECT YOUR MOTHER you spoiled snotty stuck up little douchbag!!
2007-03-08 05:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by Gardner? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The term 'douche bag' is a little over the top, don't you think. She is your mom, you know! Have you talked to her to see what it is that is bothers her about having your girlfriend over? She's probably just jealous. Talk to her and try to convince her that she would like your girlfriend if she just gave herself the opportunity to meet her. If that doesn't work, you'll just have to live with it, after all it is her house. Good luck.
2007-03-08 05:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, potty mouth, maybe you aren't acting very mature about this! Why not talk to your mom like an adult and maybe she will treat you one. Ask your mom what her objections are and maybe you two can find a resolution to the problem. Maybe your mom has valid reasons for her objection to your girlfriend coming over to your house that have nothing to do with how nice your girlfriend is. Good luck to you and God Bless.
2007-03-08 05:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by tersey562 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Its impossible for you to understand your mom. She probobly doesnt get all this "new-fangled" dating. Tell her that you see your girlfriend no matter what and doesnt she want to know the girl you spend time with? If you are going to spend time together wouldnt she rather it be in her house so she knows whats going on? if that even works... good luck getting the bedroom door closed.
2007-03-08 05:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by Libby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol I don't know. Why don't you sit down with your mom and seriously talk with her about this. I mean only she can tell you why she won't let your g/f come over. Maybe she is just scared that her kid is all grown up now or something. Any way talk to her and see what is up. Good luck!
2007-03-08 05:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋