should i give up on him. should i tell the girl.... i need help
2007-03-08 05:31:14 · 19 answers · asked by tosh2790 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are just as bad as the creep dating another girl. Any guy who needs two girls to keep him happy isnt a good guy.
I suggest you stay away from him, and if you dont want this other girl to get hurt by him if she finds out hes cheating, you tell her too.
2007-03-08 05:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Once I dated a guy who broke up with me for a girl with a lisp. And thats all I could see is this lisp. She's actually a nice girl but I was so hurt I couldn't ever see that. Now he's a loser and I'm over it. You should stop doing what you are doing and don't tell the girl, hurting her isn't going to help and its not your place. I know it hurts to be in your situation, but it's not going to change and if it did, how would you feel about yourself? Probobly not good. Give up on him and find someone who loves you for your skinny-self, it may take time but it's totally worth it.
2007-03-08 13:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Libby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I know that the fact that she's fat makes you feel better, but then why is he with her?.......If he didn't like her than he wouldn't be with her, but you can't be getting seconds if he liked you he would leave her and go with you but you need to tell him to choose cause I don't think you want to be the other all the time, treat yourself with respect and demand it from him too, and if you want you could also let the girl know what kind of guy he is....you'll be doing her a favor and yourself!!!
2007-03-08 13:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by ~Sexy Rose~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about both. Do you really want someone that has no problem in dating two people at once? Someone who keeps you in hiding? Give toh him up and if you feel so inclined, tell the other girl (let's just refer to her as other girl, not fat girl). He doesn't deserve anyone if he thinks he can string more than one along.
2007-03-08 13:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he has a girlfriend, then you should know what you are doing is wrong. Drop him and tell the girl. Just out of curiosity what does the girl being fat have to do with the situation?
2007-03-08 13:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by Just D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should pray she doesn't find out or she might knock you into next year lol. No seriously if this guy loves his g/f or wants something with her then your like his Mistress or something. You don't want to be that and can do better. Plus you shouldn't hurt this girl. I mean she is probably a very nice person. You should make the guy choose or just plain move on depending on your feelings and how strong they are. Good luck!
2007-03-08 13:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ha! I think that the fact that she's a larger woman makes you mad, and you only want to tell him because of your own poor self image.
The "fat" girl is obviously putting the smack down on YOUR man...so that makes her the "RIGHT" girl.
Get over it. She's human just like you. I'm sure you're fugly in the worst way.
2007-03-08 13:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The size of the woman he's dating is irrelevant...the point is, he's a cheater and you are part of it. That makes both of you jerks (worse acutally, but there are filters here).
Karma takes care of things though...what goes around, comes around.
Treat people as you'd like to be treated...if you wouldn't like being cheated on, don't cheat or play with cheaters.
2007-03-08 13:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Shame on both of you. You are willingly having an affair with this guy, and on the same respect, if he did break up with her, how do you know that he would be loyal to you? I would cut my losses and move on. You should get a guy that is yours alone.
2007-03-08 13:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell_pixy24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that he is cheating on him, get some moral fibre and stop dating taken men. I understand if you don't know about the gf, but when you know about her, you are just as guilty as he is. Dump him and find a man who isn't a cheater.
2007-03-08 13:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋