hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in the summer) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays and sometimes sundays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i found out what her name is it's sarah! i really want to know thank you!
i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
plus i need kinda step by step instructions please
i don't go to the movies often either. plus im 13 i can't drive and i can't take a girl with us to the movies anyway.
ps what i mean by step-by-step is like what exactly do i say to her... i am serious please
i kno i sound desperate but i need help
anyone who has had a crush knows about how it feels
please help
2007-03-08 05:27:44 · 7 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok first off if this is real you are to cute!
Ok just talk to her be nice to her and maybe see if you have a group of friends that would like to hang out and you could all hang out and play games together one night, sounds to me like you go to church....you should see if the youth group is doing anything you could go and hang out together.
Just be friends and treat her good, respect her feelings and don't fall for peer pressure and tease her!
2007-03-08 05:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by McRach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and ask her questions about herself.
I'm not talking about questions like what's your favorite color, etc. It would be best if her answers could not be one-word answers. If you ask her Did anything exciting happen to you today, she could just say "no." Instead you could ask her what the most exciting part of her day was...she will have to come up with something and will have to explain.
Just be yourself. If she's a nice girl she will not be rude or make it difficult to talk to her.
Good Luck!
2007-03-08 05:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and start up a friendly chat, like what she wants as a career, then what her fav classes are. Then, ask her over to your house, while your folks are home of course. You two can share a Coke and talk.
2007-03-08 05:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend of mine also has this problem...... but shes more older than him haha...... ok you need to become friends with her, then make the move when your 17 or 18, just talk to her as often as possible, but not so often, she might think you like her, and that will lower your chance of being her bf.......my friend had this problem, now his crush wont even talk to him much.......... remember be friends then bestfriends then close friends....... talk to her as often as possible..... oh yeah be yourself, if she does not like the actual you, there forget her, shes a loser and does not deserve you
Also try giving her some chocolates or candies, i give my friend this (shes a girl) and she seems to like it, but i have no crush on her, i just wanna make her happy.......and thats another tip, make her happy when she is with you...... as what is her interest, but not too soon....... like when you too are actually friends.
Some girls like to be teased, is she a joker, then tease her, but not to much, remembe always when teasing her "enough is enough"..... is she seriouse? then try to joke around but not much, aslong as she smiles at your jokes then thats ok......... somebody teases this girl at this school..... and did you ever noticed, the girl being teased sometimes become bond to the teaser or the boy....... try to tease her or atleast try to joke around her.... if she is smart, use the technuqe of my friend, ask her to tutor you, or go close to her chair and teach you alil... i had many classmates with your problems, well not exactly but what they are doing is some of my answers here and they somehow succeded on win their girl's heart..... so this can work for you....wow i actually go that long lol
2007-03-08 05:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by thenewhorzta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol awww. well first i would ask her how her day was
Then ask her wat shes intrested in
Then if she likes movies
Ask her to the movies, u have a mom, have her drive
Then after the movies, go out to eat or something
Just discuss her and her life goals
Does that help?
2007-03-08 05:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question looks familiar. I think I already answered this!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-08 05:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too boring
2007-03-08 05:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋