this guy cme to my house and looked at me in my eyes. and asked me 3 times! do you wanna go out with i said yes! but yesturday he didnt say nuthin to me! so i was like do we really go out? so today i asked him,if he was asking me out? or just asking me a question? he was like "oh i was just asking you a qustion. what kind of guy asks you 3 times "do you wanna go out with me"? and not really mean it in that way?
what dose this mean..??
am really sad
2007-03-08 05:26:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he knows i like him,ive liked him for a long time,he knows how i feel about him and everything, so i really dont know wuz up..
but at the end i still like him..am just confused
2007-03-08 05:42:53 · update #1
sorry to hear that baby girl, he's an as_s. nor he'll get a second chance with you.
2007-03-08 05:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was just testing your reaction to the question. Maybe when you reacted positively he just kind of freaked out and thought perhaps he wasn't good enough for you.
I bet he really is interested in you, so I wouldn't get too sad about it. For some reason, this guy seems to be really intimidated by you.
I would suggest confronting him about the issue. Maybe you should ask HIM very directly if he'd like to go hang out and see a movie or something. I'd pick an activity that isn't too formal so that you're both at ease.
:) Good luck, I bet you guys will go out soon.
2007-03-08 05:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just stating a question to get beyond the fact that he asked you out and either felt embarassed becuase he did or he feels bad or ashamed becuase he had to ask you 3 times which damaged his confidence. You should ask him out one day, if thats not your thing just have him ask you again because obviously if he likes you even if he is shy he will have that desire to be with you anyway an overcome that. The best thing to do is communicate with him.
2007-03-08 05:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was using you as a barometer for his own desirablity, which is pretty cruel and insensitive. I once wrote a girl who liked me a love letter just to see how she would react. It seemed like the thing to do then, but it really hurt her feelings when she found out I wasn't serious and I do regret it now.
2007-03-08 05:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either changed his mind or he's playing games. Either way don't waste your time with him because it sounds like he needs to grow up a little before dating anyone.
2007-03-08 05:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wanted to see what you'd say. like all guys, he's afraid of rejection. So hes just waitiing for the right moment to actually ask you for real, although this is kinda mean, its just wat guys do.
2007-03-08 05:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was just wanting to tell you how he feels about you and see how you reacted. i would go up to him and tell him how you're feeling. good luck :)
2007-03-08 05:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by sasha_miller_2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
playing hard to get maybe to test you
2007-03-08 05:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you but is just to nervous
2007-03-08 05:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by aljohn316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is plain rude!
2007-03-08 05:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋