What do you say when you catch her cheating?

Question

I came home last night and found my fiancee in bed with my best friend. I mean what the heII, my best friend. What do you say to something like that?





I said Bad Dog, you know you're not allowed on the bed.

I've told her before no pets on the funiture, especially the bed, he slobbers all over the sheets.

Answer 1

you should say " Thanks,i will take it from there"

Answer 2

wow... what a sense of humor you have. I have a lot to say about infidelity. but only so much space here lol. There is a web site that I found when this happened to me that virtually got me through the whole thing and in a positive way where I feel whole and healed and very upbeat about my life. It could easily have gone the other way. I participated in the forums and found out soooo much about the cheaters and how they normally have low self esteem that drives them to look for an opportunity subconsciously. I also learned that it can be an addiction to some. Also that in a relationship, all of us need certain elements for it to be "complete and happy". When you don't meet one of those needs, and someone else seems to be doing that, the cheater is just attracted to that and wants more and more of it.

OK, I know this is a book, but I also know you are really feeling betrayed right now and hurt like hell. I will say that trying to put it back together is not impossible, but probably not worth the trouble. The cheaters don't usually want to be subjected to the degree of inspection that would allow you to trust her again.

And since you have a sense of humor, don't even think you're the first guy this has happened to! Good luck!

Answer 3

well I would be kinda upset, I do know that it could be a lot worse, I mean it could have a been a man that could have aids or herpes, ya feel me? I would sit down with here and confront her about it and see how she reacts about it, I believe that it could be worked out maybe she just likes to do kinky things, Try doing differnt things in the bed room to inhance the pleasure, like dressing up as a sailor or she dressing up as a school girl

Answer 4

Damn sorry bro- but you tell her to move out- and have your buddy there that you saw her with. And act like the 2 of you are still the best of friends and go hang out after the 2 of you help her move out. It'll drive her crazy- you'll gain cool points with her friends- and then you have choices- you can do the same to her- you can take her back after you have your crazy night life- or you can just use this at clubs and sports bars and bring home more chicks. But after a week- cut your supposedly best friend out of the picture. You just want her to feel like crap till she's gone but don't treat her like crap.

Answer 5

You simply collect all of her belongings, place them into a plastic bag, open the front door and kick her and the bag out. I call it "taking the trash out". Oh, yeah, call her a sloot before closing the door. Then crack a beer with your best freind and compare notes on how she was in the sack.

Answer 6

You comfort them both and ask how long has it been going on. After that you break it off with your fiancee and remain friends with your buddy. Because you don't want to loose them both.

Answer 7

How about goodbye! Leave the ring!

And quit buying treats for the dog, he doesn't deserve them!

Answer 8

Just the beat crap out of him. If my best friend didl, I would go nuts. Sorry to hear that. Just get rid off both of them, you are better than them.

Answer 9

hahaha...cool question.people actually think that your gf cheated on u, but she was just in the same bed with the dog :))

Answer 10

Move Over Rover.....


well, that was pathetic...but the best I can come up with LOL

Answer 11

Well now u have to ask urself how much do u love her, and can u live with that fact.