I am a virgin on the verge of having sex, what should I do and what should I expect? Would you shave "down there"?
2007-03-08 05:23:11 · 14 answers · asked by Sexy Thany! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU SHOULD WAIT TO HAVE SEX.
2007-03-08 05:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Get birth control
2. Make sure he wears a condom - don't let him talk you out of it!
3. Shave it if you want but it'll be itchy as hell as it grows back so be prepared to deal with that.
4. Expect perhaps a slight uncomfortable feeling at first, probably a little bleeding (because he's breaking through your natural barrier - can't remember what it's called, I think hymen??)
5. Only do it if you believe you are truly ready for it. Protect yourself as much as possible. Suggest he be tested so you know he's not carrying some disease, it would suck if he had something and you caught it from him during your very first time! Explain that to him if he gets defensive about it and in that case I wouldn't go ahead with sex.
6. Make an appointment with your doctor for a full physical - this will include a pap test - a little uncomfortable but it's to monitor your sexual health. These are very important and only need to be done once a year unless something comes back in the results in which case they may suggest you have it done more frequently (6months usually).
7. First time isn't the most magical so don't be expecting lots of fireworks or anything.
Good Luck!
2007-03-08 13:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by JD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off use protection- this time and every time. It would suck to catch something. When he (I'm assuming it's a he, if it's a she, disregard this part) actually inserts himself inside you it may hurt a little bit at first (I'm sure you have heard this part before) but don't let that scare you away- it gets much better.
Whoever your partner is, they should be sure to take time with you, be patient, and work you up to the actual sex. If you don't want it so bad you're ready to beg, then you are not ready for it.
Do whatever feels right to you. Shaving "down there" is a matter of personal preference, so do what makes you the most comfortable. Have fun- it may get awkward at points, but don't be afraid to laugh at yourself. Remember that you have your whole life to get it just right, and there is nothing wrong with not doing something the 'normal' way. Check out different things you might want to do (different positions, etc.) and if possible discuss it with your partner beforehand.
Go here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_intercourse
and here: http://www.sexetc.org/
for more info
2007-03-08 13:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by blue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off don't shave down there if you don't already shave down there.Second dose this man care or love you cause if he doesn't then don't have sex with him.iam going to keep it real with you i mean your going to do what you want to do anyway but iam 24, but if i knew then what i know now i would still be a virgin.Baby girl once it's gone it's gone and you can't get it back.All iam saying is there's nothing wrong with sharing your self with some one that you love and that love you,but make sure it's real.
Sex is way over rated sweetie and if it's not with the right person it's not all what some people make it to be.Stay strong!!!!
2007-03-08 13:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not you should shave is irrelevant. What is important is that you are making the decision to give your virginity to this person. I hope you are married to this person. If not, then I do hope he at least bought you an engagement ring. You are not going to get anything out of this if the two of you are not married. You are just going to lose your virginity.
2007-03-11 18:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever makes YOU feel the most comfortable...cause it's different for everyone. My best advice...is to not think too much or try too hard...cause the first time can be awkward sometimes. Just relax...and keep in mind to have fun!!! Enjoy the moment and don't worry about the little things cause in the end ...you'll realize it doesn't matter! And don't let anyone tell you to do anything that YOU don't want to or are not ready for!
2007-03-08 13:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to a gynocologist and get an exam first. Then ask about protection from STD's. Get real. Getting pregnant is one thing, STD's are another. Concern yourself with shaving "dow there" after you get protection.
2007-03-08 13:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not something we can walk you through. sex is mental and highly instinctual, Shaving is a personal preference as well. You are over-thinking it. Just roll with it.
2007-03-08 13:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO you dont HAVE to shave downt here. Its gonna hurt the first time,
2007-03-08 13:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarely shave but may be trim, but you should just relax and enjoy it, it will probably hurt at first but is not that bad
2007-03-08 13:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay a virgin
2007-03-08 13:29:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋