I have alot of ideas and things that turn me on and I wanted to know where is the line of kinky and sick end or start ?
How much to I reveal before I actually marry someone ?
2007-03-08 05:20:05 · 17 answers · asked by Sugar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kink is totally up to the individual. Whatever floats your boat. Everyone is different.
2007-03-08 05:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The line between kinky and sick is only where you and your partner place it. As long as consenting adults are involved and both are comfortable with the actions taking place...go for it! What one person may think is sick could be a huge turn on for another.
As far as revealing these...would you want to marry someone that you didn't feel comfy revealing your sexual ideas to? In order for a relationship/marriage to work you have to know everything about each other...I mean, this will be the person you're sleeping with so you might as well be certain that you are compatible.
2007-03-08 05:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think kinkiness is determined differently by everyone....the line is drawn on where it's comfortable for you and your partner. I think kinkiness is also like an experiment...you have to try it to see where someone will draw the line. I don't think you need to "reveal" anything before you marry.....just experiment and have fun and you will automatically know what turns you on and your partner at the same time. That's what great about a marriage, if you find the right one..you will always have someone to try out new kinky stuff with! Have fun!
2007-03-08 05:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You reveal all of it.
The line between kinky and too kinky is between you and whoever your partner is. If you can come to a satisfactory agreement great.
If not, well perhaps you should reconsider your relationship.
Better to know now then to get married to someone who can't deal with the things that you like.
Good luck.
2007-03-08 05:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by spamovision 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different preferences...I think you should find out what is are though, and how willing (or un) he may be to share in yours...BEFORE you marry!
If he's not interested at all in what you consider "kinky" then you'll need to decide if that's a deal breaker or not.
Don't wait until after y'all have said "I do" to spring this on him...but you don't have to make it a confession either...simply get into a discussion about likes and dislikes, ask if he would be interested in trying 'xyz' or what his limits are, and go from there.
2007-03-08 05:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the person you are with what they consider kinky. You should reveal all of your sexual desires before marriage so that you can be sure the person you are getting married to shares at least some of your desires or is at least open to trying them.
2007-03-08 05:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very little is too kinky for a woman to reveal to her lover as
long as it does not involve other men....
Most men are pretty much up for anything...
2007-03-08 05:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reveal it all before marriage...otherwise you will either feel repressed or he may feel revolted. What you want to do sexually in or out of bed is fine as long as no one gets hurt...unless thats what your looking for:) It takes two...just make sure you both want it. WHats sick to one person is just fine and a daily occurance to another. Many woman think masturbation is BAD...personally I couldn't live without it and neither could my husband!
2007-03-08 05:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by ste.phunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him now. if you're already married and he starts finding out all these things, it'll be worse! being kinky is fine, he's probably cool with it. or maybe he's into the same stuff you are! never know til you come clean with your kinkiness.
2007-03-08 05:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by drummergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 21:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're marrying someone, there should be 100% trust.
How about if you start revealing things AFTER the marriage? Won't that be more difficult to manage.
Be honest now.
2007-03-08 05:23:50 · answer #11 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋