I really want a boyfriend, but I'm not Jessica Simpson.... so I'm not that gorgeous... everytime I try to look sexy people call me a sl ut. Please help me! I'm desparate!
2007-03-08 05:14:38 · 2 answers · asked by nobody's kid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about trying to look great.
Don't do anything that makes you look WORSE than you have to, and otherwise don't stress. I'm guessing you're pretty shapely, or else plump but curvy. Either way, tops that button or tie in front are advantageous for most females (although there are exceptions to any rule that broad). What you wear below the waist almost doesn't matter; your shape is whatever it is. Long hair looks better on most females, in most males' opinion, than short.
And that's pretty much IT in the looks area. Don't overdo the concern.
The real key to being liked in the way you want to be liked is being fun, warm, and non-threatening. I deliberately didn't say "interesting" because, while to a lot of guys -- including me!!! -- "interesting" is an absolute requirement for "fun", it isn't to all of them.
Different guys have very different ideas of what "fun" and "non-threatening" are, so you'll only appeal to some of them -- but that's OK!! Isn't it?
2007-03-08 08:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on your conversation skills. Trust me, it well come down to the grammer you can lay down. With that said, KNOW THY SELF. People will love the fing shizit out of a person that is strong and smart about there ideals. Besides if they don't thier not worth your speech.
2007-03-08 06:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋