my ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago. i got a drunken phone call @ 4am saying she really liked another guy. also told me when i took her back a couple months ago she was dating some other guy (which now i feel like an idiot) this was a lot to take in since i loved her and dated for 3 years. i got a msg saying we need to talk the next day. i called her back she didn't answer. havent spoke since.
i have seen her on the weekends at the bars and she brings him to my favorite hang out. she goes out of her way to talk to my friends and say says to them don't hate her for this. i would never do anything like that. i want nothing to do with her, and i avoid her like the plague. everyone says i deserve better and that she is nuts, i agree. what is up with this girl is she nuts? why would someone not even have the common decency to end it without getting involved with someone else?
2007-03-08 05:14:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
avoid her
2007-03-08 05:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by Monet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's just not over you and is trying to act the opposite. She wants you to notice and think that she is content so that you'll want her back. If she really was happy, she would not need to flaunt her every move but like you said, she likes to hang where you are with her new bf, she goes out of her way to talk to your friends and says stupid stuff. It is just her way of dealing with a failed relationship, one that you both invested 3 years into. I would just ignore it. The more you act like you don't notice, the more it'll hurt her! Just ignore her, or try to be somewhere where she wouldn't go. Avoiding her like the plague is the right thing to do!
2007-03-08 05:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by lovin' life... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a revenge thing...did you do something to hurt her in anway would be a question that you should be asking yourself. If not then maybe she is just plain mean and isnt the girl for you. Good ridance if that is the case and move on. Go to different clubs/bars and get your close friends to do the same so that she doesnt get the satisfaction of hurting you over and over again. Good luck to you.
2007-03-08 05:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is trying to get back at you for something. Most times the person leaves and never bugs you again. She hasn't ended thing yet in her mind. It may take some time but u should talk to her or at least get a friend to get to the bottom of this.
2007-03-08 05:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by S A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let it bother u...or at least in appearance. that is what she wants. for some reason she is out to hurt u and prove she is over the relationship (even tho it sounds like shes not if she wants to prove something to u and cares how u feel) just move on and find someone to really enjoy ur time with
2007-03-08 05:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she wants to get back at you for something. or she is self destructive and doesnt know what to do with her life. Either way it appears that she doesnt care how you feel about this situation so move on if she calls dont answer if she text that you need to talk ignore it. you will get over it. You dont need that drama in your life.
2007-03-08 05:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some people don't know what common decency is and they never will. You were smart getting away from this craziness. Let her new boyfriend deal with it now.
2007-03-08 05:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows what she was thinking. Move on. Find yourself some nice lady, get married and raise kids and be happy. Life it to short to worry about what could have happened or what should have happened.
2007-03-08 05:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by Pug_the_invoker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman are strange...trust me...i am one...we can be coniving little ***** she must have low self esteem. she didnt want to hurt anymore so she moved on to someone else and she wants you to feel her pain im guessing...by shwing off her new dude, she prolly dont even like him that much...just a tool to get back at you...because as a man...you must know...everyhitng is your fault :P j/k but thats wuts up
2007-03-08 05:18:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find you a nice young lady to take out and enjoy.
2007-03-08 05:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by Khalil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hurting now but it will get better with time. try to ignore this charade and meet someone new
2007-03-08 05:18:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋