my gf hits me all the time when we are together in a playful way, i hit her back once and she freaked out at me . . .. is it okay for her to hit me but wrong for me to hit her back, i mean its only like playful gentle kinda slaps . . .
2007-03-08 05:10:36 · 22 answers · asked by prince14 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when did I freak out?!!! I dont remember...
you should never hit a girl :P
love u babe
-Val ;)
2007-03-08 05:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't play hit at all! you should tell her to stop period. It can lead into a bad situation especially if she likes to do it to you and not you to her. Tickling is playful. Not slapping or hitting. It's not something a couple should be doing at all. Because after a while you will both lose respect for each other and it's not worth it. Any relationship you have should be one that will leave you with more pleasant memories than bad.
2007-03-08 05:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by rencar32002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like her playful hitting, then tell her to stop or expect reciprocation.
Stuff like that can get out of hand...I would recommend against even playful hits/slaps for the very reason you mentioned "she freaked out at me". Y'all could end up with the cops at your door...
2007-03-08 05:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I roughhouse with my fiance all the time, but only in a playful manner. Hitting in anger is denfinitely not okay. IT sounds like she may have some issues in her past, so I would be sensitive to her wishes, even if it does seem unfair.
2007-03-08 05:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys shouldn't be hitting each other at all! One thing could go wrong and you guys could get into a serious fight. Just talk to her and let her know that you dont want your play fighting to turn out to be a big thing, so you think you should stop it. Its a good idea. Another reaon is what if someone see you and dont know your playing. They call the cops..do you think the cops are going to believe you when you say..Oh, we were just palying..just dont do it!
2007-03-08 05:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by punky brewster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it is never ok to hit a girl. It doesn't matter whether you are just playing or not. Guys are a lot stronger than you may think and girls are very fragile. You may be hitting her, what you think is, soft and it could really hurt her. if you 2 are playing just restrain her or try tickling. A lot less painful.
2007-03-08 05:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hit her.Now that you know that hitting is not okay with her,you need to consider this seriously.
Hitting one another playfully is okay as long as it isnt offensive.But your gf was offended by such act.So be cautious.
2007-03-08 05:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my girlfriend hits me to but i never hit back, just tell her to stop and if she wont then ignor her until she ask whats wrong and explain to her how you feel about what is goin on.. if your just playin its ok to hit very very lightly but you still shouldnt cuz that just leads to fights and other stuff you do not want
2007-03-08 05:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by eggbcn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO never hit a woman.. tell her to stop hitting you . if it is bothering you.. yes its playful but she won;t stop cause this is what she is used to so tell her NOW to stop
2007-03-08 05:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by muffett1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me and my boyfriend do that sll the time...we play slap box .... but some times we both tgake it over board sometimes, and then we call it quits because we sont wanna fight over it. I mean i think its okay if your just playin but dont takw it to the extreme...
2007-03-08 05:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by Haley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋