What is the most important thing to understand about men? asking men?

Answer 1

1. Men are more sensitive than women think they are. They just aren't free to express it like women are. Women sometimes think because they are confident and strong that they must be emotionally tough too. But they do have feelings.
2. That women have the power to make or break them. Men can joke and tease with each other, but if their woman does it, it is like a dagger to the heart.
3. They are afraid of being wrong, or people thinking that they don't measure up.... that they are impostors.
4. Women want to be loved, but men want to be respected. That is love to a man. They would rather be unloved and alone, than be disrespected. And, women unknowingly disrespect them all the time. It could be as simple as telling him to pull over and get directions....
5. Men don't have the verbal skills women have. Give him time to process what you have asked him.
6. If a man really cares about you he will wait for sex.
7. Men feel that it is up to them to provide for you, and it is never enough.....even though we are content, they think they have to keep doing more.
8. Women can talk with other women to relieve our stress, but men have to have sports, and action to relieve their stress.
9. Men have a mental "roledex" of sexual images that pop up in their head whether they want it too or not. It could be from anytime in their life. No matter how good or Christian a guy is, all men have this.... women don't really understand this because it does not happen to us at all!
10. Women use words to connect, but men connect with a woman by doing things together.
11. Don't use women's logic to know what a guy wants or needs. He is wired totally different from us. Think in guy logic.


Disclaimer..... this is not true for every man, but most.

Answer 2

There are actually a few things that are very important to understand about men. You've already hit one on the head. By asking the question, you already understand that men have feelings too.

Okay, this is in no particular order and it's off the top of my head.

Probably most important is to understand that mens' minds are wired differently. We think more logically and less emotionally than women do (women tend to seek empathy, a man's natural tendency is to try to "solve the problem").

To women, affection is a need. To men, SEX is a physical NEED. Turn us down too often-we'll quit asking and start looking for satisfaction somewhere else (masturbation, porn or from another woman). Generally, a healthy male doesn't lose his desire for sex, although he may lose his desire for sex with YOU.

Yes, it does hurt us when our women call us names during the heat of an argument, nag or are disrespectul in any other way. It can kill a man's attraction for a woman. In contrast, a loving husband who is honored and served by a sweet, loving wife will bust his a** to provide her with the best life she could possibly wish for and treat her like a queen.

Ocassionally, we like to be left alone to watch sports, play games on the computer or whatever and girl's night out every now and then is a beautiful thing. It's good for the lady to have friends and get out of the house every now and then.

Oh, and this is a big one...we're not demontrating our love or "making love" we're having sex! A man MUST be aroused to have sex. No arousal, no sex! In men, sexual arousal is a physical response to primarily visual stimulation. There are some other factors too, but women must understand and accept the fact that men are visually stimulated. In women, apparently it is an emotional response. Just because you don't turn-us on sexually anymore DOES NOT mean we don't love you.

Waaayyy too often women forget that physical attraction is at least as important to a men as it is to women. That is one of the biggest double standards...especially here on Answers!

Answer 3

men do not like to talk a lot, we do not need to bond in our relationships by constantly talking. women would have a better understanding of men once they realize this important point.

Answer 4

We need to understand that men are wired different than women... so stop trying to make them act like us..... they're men... they don't fill the toilet dispenser (among many things they don't do)... they aren't our girlfriends.... they're MEN.

Answer 5

maximum adult males: a million) think of approximately intercourse 10 situations as frequently as you do. 2) are logical of their thinking - you're maybe 5 situations as emotional as he's. 3) adult males compartmentalize - one ingredient of their lives does no longer usuallly have any effect on the others. 4) adult males pick to be attentive to they're adult males - have him do the heavy lifting - whether you're able to do it your self - tell him how sturdy he's. 5) lower back, adult males think of approximately intercourse.... adult males love cleavage - placed on that low decrease suitable...

Answer 6

leave us alone when we are watching sports. leave us alone when we want to be left alone. go find a hobby and some friends so you leave us alone once in a while. dont call me unless you have something important to tell me. dont *****, argue, or spend our money on crap.

Answer 7

Its not our fault that we are all just a bunch hornball sex junkies...we have feelings too.

Answer 8

we are always thinking of sex

Answer 9

brain..heart..crotch

Answer 10

That we DO HAVE FEELINGS.