Ok so heres the deal. Me and my girl have been dating for about 4 months now. I love her to death but somtimes i get a little too jealous and we always end up fighting about the same ****. from the begining, me and her hooked up when she was dating her ex, in other words she was cheating on him with me, her good friend at the time. Lately my good friend (DJ) has been calling her and wanting to hang out all the time. And instead of her spending time with me, her and DJ just get drunk everynight that he asks. Its like she cant tell him no about any thing. And when this happens i get jealous. I try to fight it but all i hear is them two upstairs talking and to me it sounds like flirting. They have popcorn fights and little stupid things like that. It erks me and ive let her know about it but everytime i bring him up it ends in a fight. Last night they were up till like 2 in the mornin! i dont go up and hang out because when i do, nobody wants to talk and its weired. What do i do about it?
2007-03-08 05:01:35 · 2 answers · asked by Yessirr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know how to break this to you lightly, but...
your gf is the cheating type. If you could take her away from her ex, why couldn't someone else take her away from you?
If they "have popcorn fights and little stupid things like that"... that's the pre-stage to a relationship (of some kind)... so it should "erk you"... and if you do go up & hang out, "nobody wants to talk and its weird". Follow your instincts.
It sounds like she's already "gone", so just end it now. Do it harshly if you want. And your "good friend" DJ, is not really a good friend, so be careful of him in the future.
If it's any consolation, she & DJ probably won't last very long either.
Best of luck 2 u
2007-03-08 05:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by sky2evan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something real intense....if you think you can save the relationship, just pull her out of the way for the day and talk to her, tell her how you feel and subtly try to find out if she feels the same way about you.....subtly, don't blow it out of proportion.....all that about dating you while she was with her ex sounds a little bit shady if you ask me, and it could be that she's repeating the whole thing over again, just with you, but like I said, talk to her first and remain calm.....if it happens to be that way, you can always just find someone else, just move on to someone who would love you and wouldn't do that to you.
2007-03-08 13:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by mexicangurl_442@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋