My daughter has a develope butt,and she's a very attractive young girl,but it sickens me when we go out in public,some men be staring at her,and making comments about her butt.I heard these two guys mentioned man she has a nice big @ss!I'm afraid of her safety when she's older,cause she's a pretty girl,and it's soo scary.Is this what i have to face for the rest of her life?
2007-03-08 04:50:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
I was like that when i was younger. Teach her how to handle the situation. All attention is not good attention. I would say lock her in her room but that wouldn't be right. Just raise her right and teach her to understand that there is more to her than just her butt! then she won't go after men her like her for that one reason! She will have higher standards!
2007-03-08 05:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by $Bl@Ck BuTtAfLy$ 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I worry about that too with my daughter. Right now she's still a baby but I am worried about when she starts developing. I would say the best you can do is to teach your daughter to respect herself and how to handle men that make those comments to her. I'm sure she doesn't understand right now, but when she gets older she will learn real quick that her looks will get her lots of places with men.
Most girls that are more pretty than the average woman usually have to put up with men not taking them seriously, and them just seeing her as a piece of meat. Just instill in her a strong personality so she doesn't get played or get taken advantage of.
2007-03-08 14:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are sick pigs you can't change them but what you could do is make sure that you daughter is not dressing sexy or in tight clothes. You should start now having talks with her about inappropriate behavior by men and boys so she will be educated in case any situation arises.
2007-03-08 14:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would knock out those pervs!!! Did they not recognize that she is a child? I am scared to death for my little girl. Unfortunately she has one of those butts. There are sooo many pervs out there, all you can do is educate and communicate. But my problem is HOW do you educate a little kid about these matters without destroying their innocents? Next time some one makes a comment on your LITTLE GIRL , make a comment yourself about them!!! Tell them they are looking at a underage child!!! Society is going to hell!!!!
2007-03-08 18:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by cookie4me_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, it's a sick sick world out there. As in men are sick people, sorry guys but can you picture a 30-year old woman looking at a boy's 8-year old butt thinking these thoughts? I think not...
2007-03-08 20:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is sick that guys want to lokk at little girls at that age, pure sick. i have a 7 & 8 yr old girls also and if i seen some guy look at either one of them i would punch their dern lights out and let them know where to put their eyes. its sick and pervish. let someone know in like a cop or something that cause they will be watching them. you better be careful also. teach her to defend herself if a scarey situation may occure and you are not around. if nothing else tell her if someone tried to mess with her to kick them (you know where)
2007-03-08 14:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by willwork4u2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report these people to the proper authorities without hesitation. Take a look at all the cases of sexual preditors to convince you.
2007-03-08 14:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by basport_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you to teach her as best you can about how to take care of herself,take her to a how to stay safe class ,call the local police for any classes they can suggest ,take her to local tie kwan do classes ,teach her how to dress properly and how to be safe,like not going alone etc,good luck i know its scary.
2007-03-08 13:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by raindovewmn41 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She gets this from her parents............................ either, or both sides.............................
2007-03-08 15:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋