i went out with my ex for 4 almost 4 years and he broke up with me last year in november...?

Question

he expects me to be over it by now, i asked him if we could possibly try it again in the future and he says that he sure its a no, does he really mean it? he was so sure that he would be with me 4 ever and that didnt happen so this could change right? i really care 4 him, i tryed seeing other people but it doesnt feel right..i told i would wait 4 him when hes ready and he said dont waste my time. i guess what im asking is CAn he just be saying this because hes frustrated and not sure he says he still cares 4 me. please

thank u for all your answers, i never thought he would do this to he promised and he says things change i think thats why it hurts so much, because he really made me beleive and the only reason he said he woud end it is if i cheated,ididnt i was committed.

Answer 1

you never took no for an answer did you? so here it is, no he doesn't want to see you. no you shouldn't wait for him for ever. no he isn't just saying these things because he still cares for you. hes frustrated because you wont leave him alone. next time your involved with someone, don't make them your entire world otherwise your going to be asking the same question when that one ends.

Answer 2

When long relationships end, sometimes it's hard to let go. I think, as women, we always have this feeling that the man is going to suddenly come to his senses and realize he can't live without us.

That almost never happens.

For your sake, break off communication with him. (The only way you'll really be able to move on.) I know it's hard, and it won't feel right at first, but eventually you'll get over it and will find someone else who makes you more happy.

If it's not meant to be, it's just not meant to be. Besides, what kind of relationship could you have if he wasn't really into you?

Take some time to love yourself, and everything else will fall into place.

Answer 3

u just have to wait for some time i know u love him and his love can't just go away so quick. so time will tell, just wait a little and then talk to him again if he want to be with u and he see that u don't pay much attention that is going to hurt him and he will come bac, but if he really moved on, he won't care. just talk to him face to face not on phone. if he is not worth it u don't have to date other just try to have a good time by ur self it will feel good.
Also, i t depends if he was the one to do u wrong, u should let it go.
this is for that guy Mistclea..
let me answer ur relationship question
ok. if there is love between both of u it will conquer all, but if there isn't love in both then it won't and u both need to move on. Ex; me and my bf broke up cuz he did something wrong, and i was really hurt, i said i'll never be with him, but time past and he show me that his love is really strong so ever since we are doing better. but if he really didn't love me what i would have done was to move on. so i hope this example helped.

Answer 4

enable her pass dude. She would not experience a similar for you. additionally, she's moving 7 hours away? Yeah long distance relationships do on no account artwork out ok. and she or he'll be in California with particularly some warm dudes all round her, she is going to discover a boyfriend enormously quickly. you would be in a relationship for yet another 3 weeks and then she'll come to a determination that she needs somebody else. it particularly is no longer nicely worth it. She would not love you anymore and you could head on. it is the suitable danger so which you could head on- she'll be particularly, particularly some distance far off from you and you will no longer could see her anymore or maybe refer to her. i think of you could take this opportunity to recover from her for stable.

Answer 5

Im going thru the EXACT same thing as you. People must stop being so harsh with their answers- they just dont get it. I wish i could help but truth is i need the same answer as you. They say love conquers everything so why wont it now? And people are always trying to tell you how you can move on but what if you DONT WANT TO!!!

Answer 6

it seems as though he's over you and has moved on. you need to accept that. sure, he may still care for you, but that doesn't mean he loves you or wants to be in a relationship with you. it seems as though you just need to move on. try your best to stop thinking about him and try to meet and go out with as many other guys as possible. you're bound to meet someone who gets you eventually.

Answer 7

He used U and he is cheap. Dumped U before christmas
so he would not have to buy U anything. Its over.