How many of you believe it is more difficult for a guy to land a date if he doesn't get pass the initial/physical attraction phase where a woman finds him hot/cute/handsome/etc?
How many of you feel society is taboo when it comes to looks - where men are more into beauty but women aren't? But the reality is women are?
2007-03-08 04:45:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We like things we think look pretty. We like them if they are furniture or cars or people. It doesn't matter. If we find it ascetically pleasing, we like it. I don't think there is anything wrong with that.
Not everyone finds the same things attractive, physically and otherwise. I think that if you have what to fall back on (intelligence, whit, passion, confidence) then looks aren't going to be what holds you back in the dating arena. Just ask 3 people who can't see a representation of you what you look like and you'll see what I mean. You'll get a slightly different answer from each person because each person places ascetic value on different things.
But just as you wouldn't buy a car that looked good but sucked in every other way, you shouldn't stay with someone just because of how they look either. Looks may often be the first step but they shouldn't be the last as well.
2007-03-08 04:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know the saying, where people say "looks arent everything" BUT really, could you have a relationship with someone that you think is ugly as a dog? I guess it just tend to be the maturity of the person / couple to get past the attraction phase if they want a committed relationship to work out
2007-03-08 04:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by ibrollin05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own idea of what they are looking for and chemistry also plays a role. It is true that you both need to be attracted to each other for it to work. You can't change that no matter what you do. It does not matter if you are a man or a woman - attraction has to be there for it to work.
2007-03-08 04:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think we are too caught up in beauty and looks, but i am i a girl that looks for beauty on the outside..... So it all depends on the woman.
2007-03-08 04:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone should be into beauty. Beauty comes in all sizes, shapes, colors, etc. What is beautiful to me, may not be beautiful to you. It differs with each person.
You should be physically attracted to your mate as well as other characteristics such as humor, intellect, etc.
2007-03-08 04:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had easily no initial attraction to my very last boyfriend. We went out lots as friends and he ended up turning out to be on me. We had the the perfect sex ... ideas blowing! i'm interested in him now (bodily) . i'm particular that is an exception, besides the undeniable fact that it truly is accessible to boost a romantic courting inspite of the inability of initial actual attraction.
2016-12-05 10:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO? too bad we are same as you-poor thing. YES they have to be sexy
2007-03-08 04:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people tend to be superficial. i guess we have to deal with it
2007-03-08 04:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋