but my husband isnt ready yet. I know I should be patient, we've only been married 9 months. He thinks 4 years til he may be ready. We see our 6 month old niece all the time who he is great with and loves but still says we should wait. How can I put it out of my head and stop asking him all the time. Its driving us both mad!
2007-03-08 04:29:19 · 10 answers · asked by Little C 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I dont really want to go behind his back, not a good way to start married life!
2007-03-08 04:35:59 · update #1
Just relax, although I'm sure he would be happy if you got pregnant, he is right in wanting to wait until you are more established, not only emotionally but financially as well. Start a journal, cataloging what is going on in your life, maybe even start planning a nursery and such. Also visit your doctor and stay in check with your gynecological health. Make sure when you two decide you are ready start taking pre-natal vitamins before you actually get pregnant. You may have a healthier pregnancy because of it. Just stay healthy and fit and lost any weight you may need to lose now, start preparing your body now and when it happens you'll be grateful you did. Good Luck and God Bless.
2007-03-08 04:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by tylw85 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband ask me the same and we wait 5 years ,It was the best years on my life .After that we have our little babe,don't think it's easy to raise a child . In the mean time check yourself with a doctor every year.Babies like money some people had and some hadn't
2007-03-08 13:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by ÍÈíÈå Ì 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe make a compromise with him. Give him some of his time, and ask him to give you some of yours. If you just got pregnant, he may resent you thinking you did it on purpose. If time is a real issue, consult a counselor together so you can both express your reasoning. 4 years is a little long, but maybe he's willing to meet halfway? Good luck!
2007-03-08 12:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always good to wait a little longer after marrage, to get Pregnent. Just enjoy "us time" cuz once it is gone there is no way to get it back.
2007-03-08 12:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by maltrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to look at in his prespective, maybe thinks that having a baby is going to take you away from him. maybe he thinks that u guys are not physically and mentally fit for having a baby. i think you should give it some time before you guys try to have kids. just take that into consideration!
2007-03-08 12:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by misha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let things happen as they will. sometimes, you get pregnant when you least expect it, and are forced to deal with it. Its not a bad thing either way. If you have stopped using protection than things can happen as they will.
2007-03-08 12:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by pegasis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in too big of a rush. Give him some time to make a decision. You're overwhelming him..
2007-03-08 12:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by Answer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why you married him if you know he did what a baby and sometime this take times.
2007-03-08 12:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by jessica s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start saving money,, babies cost money, and in the meantime enjoy having lots of sex, cuz once the baby comes you wont want to have sex anymore,, at least for awhile, the baby will wear you out and you wont want it,
2007-03-08 12:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes it just takes actually getting pregnant for him to change his mind.
2007-03-08 12:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋