my ex says she is still in love with me but since our breakup realizes that she is also still in love with another ex. On top of that he is in jail! Now is he talkin that jail talk to her? Does that even matter because she says shes still in love!!??
2007-03-08 04:17:13 · 15 answers · asked by dmx2901_1999 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think that it is possible to be in love with more than one person for the simple fact that if you are in love you are putting 100% into your relationship. there is no way you can give 100% to 2 people the math doesn't work out. You would only be giving 50/50 and you would want to be in a relationship where they are giving 100% and the other person is not. She is confused is what she is. I think you should let her know that she needs to make a choice. Its either you or him. She can't have both.
2007-03-08 04:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's never been my case, but I don't think you can be in love with 2 people at the same time. You can want to rely on someone to lessen the pain of the one you truly love and think you love this 2nd person too. But if you are still thinking of an ex while you're with someone else then it means that rather than loving that someone he is nothing but a consolation prize...
2007-03-08 04:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by shygal 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have been in love with two people at the same time and for a long time. If I could have had both people, I would have kept it that way. But people have a way of making you choose so being in love with two people at the same time doesnt usually work and neither does threesomes. The two people met different emotional needs in myself and I met certain needs for them. If I could have rolled the two into one person , it would have been grand.
2007-03-08 04:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes one can be in love with two.but such a person needs to redefine love to himself: is it about wanting to get everything, is it about a desire for an experience,? love cant be selfish and what she has is an attraction to the bad boy, or the boy out of reach..sometimes ppl like some drama in their lives..now it depends on u, why do u want to be in such a relationship
2007-03-08 04:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by kate07 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont listen 2 jail talk its all bs and u could be in luv wit 2 people its normal i was in tha same positions i think u should let her chill down a little she will realize that u was a good man towards her u know let me know what happens my email is shawana365@sbcglobal.net good luck okay
2007-03-08 04:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have liked 2 people in the same time (love is too much) and it is possible...
but her story... two ex boyfriends... one in jail... oh man that's hilarious :))
2007-03-08 04:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by sea_star 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i think his time in jail has left him pondering about his past relationships and how much fun he had with them all. i don't believe its love at all, but lust and the extreme urge to be loved and to be with a women while he is in his situation.. hell, for him, any woman would do for him right now ..
2007-03-08 04:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by 18/M/Scotland 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she sounds very confused. I dont think you can be in love with 2 people, you can love 2 people but not be in love with 2.
2007-03-08 04:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by brandi_mrrw 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont bother with him hes in jail and you dont need that if he loves you he would not be in jail and he would not be even thinking about any other chick besides his mom
2007-03-08 04:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
why would you want a air head any way cut her lose move on then wait 6 months and tell her you left she may not know you left
2007-03-08 04:22:54 · answer #10 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋