I can't seem to stop worrying that my boyfriend might be cheating on me or at least been thinking about it. I don't actually think he's cheating considering how much time we spend together. I guess I'm just worried he might be talking to other girls without me knowing.
I guess it all stems from something that happened when we first got together. I discovered he was talking to another girl. In the midst of one of there flirty conversations he even said "too bad I'm not single...". Since my discovery of this he has fought valiantly not to loose me. Things got much better and I disregarded the whole thing assuming it only happened because we hadn't been together very long.
But now I'm starting to think about it again and I'm not sure what to do to stop my worrying. I've talked to him about it and he shows me in may ways he loves me but in the back of my head I wonder if he's lying. What should I do?
2007-03-08 04:17:13 · 6 answers · asked by Bonzilla!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been there, don't think your the only girl who has ever felt that way. The one thing I learned though, is that I have to look into myself and really deal with why I am thinking this way. Yes, he did screw up in the past, but that's in the past. You say he has done everything he can to make you feel loved, well take it for what it is worth. He loves you, he doesn't want anyone else. You have to look into yourself and believe that you are beautiful and great and he is so lucky to have you. Not the other way around. You are a catch! Don't let the past make you second guess your worth. Because that is what it boils down to. To see if he loves you enough so he wont leave. Trust yourself and your love for eachother. You don't want to keep this mentality because it can drive him away. Who wants to be with someone who just wont accept what they are saying. You owe it to him and yourself.
2007-03-08 04:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're feeding your fears with all of this worrying. The more you dwell on it, the more you'll be convinced he is lying. He is committed to you now. He does not want to lose you. You have no proof.... just an old conversation that should be buried by now. Quit looking to the past and look to the future... he shows you he loves you. What you should do is be happy he is with you now because that is where he wants to be.
2007-03-08 12:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering the time you spend together its probably unlikely.hes cheating.He has assured you of his committment to you.He shows you he loves you,stop worrying and enjoy being with him.Trust him.Most womwn can tell when a man is cheating. They change towards you,like spending less time with you. I feel you have nothing to worry about. Enjoy what you have together,its rare these days.
2007-03-08 12:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by canteloupesweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to trust him, and stop thinking about it. i know it is hard, but from what you are saying he is totally in love with you. Stop borrowing trouble until it comes knocking!!
2007-03-08 12:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by brandi_mrrw 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking that way before you sabotage your relationship. I would not tolerate that crap from you ...if I was innocent.
2007-03-08 12:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by mikey 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him if he is caught cheating you gonna circumcise him... from the neck down.LOL
2007-03-08 12:22:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋