i have answered 2 question for bout chicks who's man needs space. what i can't fugure out is why don't women take time out for themselves? why do we worry if the man is gonna come back to us? we spend all our time worrin bout what the men will do, but in turn, we could be the ones really needin to take some time. what do ya'll think? (men answer away too)
2007-03-08 04:12:29 · 9 answers · asked by POETIC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we grow up thinking that a women always needs a man... thats what our mothers told us.....most of the time
2007-03-08 04:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women usually, always want the last word or say so. Women would be much happier breaking it off then letting the guy do so. Also women make it out to be more than it is. The reason for a break up could be over issues on getting along, but women will sometimes think that its their appearance. Insecurity at times if you ask me! But hey Im a guy right!!
2007-03-08 12:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy I've been seeing for about three months told me last week he needed a break. I was crushed! Of course that lasted about a day! I don't know why we do it. Part of me wants the time to myself but at the same time I want to be with him so badly I cant stand it. I think the worst, what is he doing, is he with someone else, so on and so on. I think most of it comes from fear of being alone or even maybe low self esteem. All I can say is I try my best to occupy my free time with things that are good for me like long baths, watching my favorite shows or reading.
2007-03-08 12:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done it. I think when you come out of a long term relationship especially, you need some time to yourself. If you don't take it, you can set yourself up to fall with the next relationship because you are bringing along the baggage from the last one. You need time to be happy alone and know that you can live on your own. You just want someone because you want them not because you NEED them to make you happy.
2007-03-08 12:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think we are scared to be alone and i also if we think that if men find us attractive and want to be with us then we are important
we also are built to want to have relationships for the most part we like to have someone and when that certain someone doesn't want us we dont feel good about ourselves
but i think you are so right i think us girls should get out and find time for us and make time for us in relationships and if we need space then i think we should ask for it
2007-03-08 12:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds reasonable to me. The more you sit around worrying and waiting the more it tells me how desperate you are. The more I can get away with because you will always take me back.
You want me back, act like you don't need me.
2007-03-08 12:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither men nor women really need / want space..
They simply want to move on to someone else...
2007-03-08 12:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys arnt the only ones that say they need space woman do it to. i cnt speak for all guys but i think about the same stuff like what is she doing and who is she doing it with etc.
2007-03-08 12:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are different
2007-03-08 16:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by Egbert R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋