How do you get someone a year older than you to change their mind and like you like you like them.(date wise)?

Question

I want them to want to go with me but it worked at first but then they changed thier mind a so I was mad but I got over it, its just that the person I like stays on my mind all the time. Now we dont even talk the way we use to before we tried to make it work. I then wanted to know what he thought about me now that he and I new how each other thought about one another, so I decided to make up a person and pretend to be them and ask him questions about me, to find that he really didnt like me like that. Well he and my made up friend have been talking for two weeks now and he likes her but dosent even know her, so now im all by myslef. I know what I did was wrong but its just that I really want to be with him. I need alot of help. I want to try to change my looks and my attitude, but I dont think that will do any kind of help but its worht a shot. If i do get him to like me I want him to be real and like me for who I am not anything else. So whoevers reading this please hep me out. Thanks

Answer 1

I'm guessing you're probably still in junior high or high school...don't change who you are for someone else. If they don't like you the way you are, they're not worth your time.
This isn't the end of the world, find someone else to like. Show confidence in yourself, people are strangely attracted to confidence. Maybe if you ignored them, they'd come running to you....then again maybe not. Who cares though, if they don't like you, move on!

Answer 2

Forget about him. If he doesn't want to be with you that's his choice. Apparently YOU don't want to be with you either and that's what you have to work on. You can't keep changing yourself to attract someone's attention ... especially someone who has made it clear he's not interested in you. You are you, not a chameleon. I think you should work on improving your self-esteem and learning to love you exactly as you are and then go out and find a guy who loves the real you. I'm sure there are plenty! If you succeeded in changing yourself enough to capture this guy's attention, then you will always be worried about losing it because you know that you are just putting up a false self. How will you ever be able to relax and enjoy the relationship? Trust me, you're better off forgeting about him and moving on, but first you have to learn to love yourself.

Answer 3

Give up on him and find someone that really DOES like you for who you are!! You can't say you want to change so that he'll like you then turn around and say you want him to like you for who you are - those a mutually exclusive ideas. Since you already know he does not want to be with you move on. There are lots of other guys out there and a relationship cannot work unless BOTH people want it to.

Answer 4

Never consider changing who you are, to get someone elses attention, you'll find that if you do get with that person, you'll end up not being happy. People should like you for who your are and not who you pretend to be, and if they dont, then they're not right for you.

Answer 5

Listen, not everyone you like will end up liking you the same way. Evryone is different. You can't MAKE someone like you, either they do or they don't. If it's the latter, then you should stop wasting your precious time taliing to him. Out of sight, out of mind.

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Answer 7

tell her how u feel nd talk sweet to her maybe shell go out with u again

Answer 8

move on... dont waste your time trying to get a guy who doesnt want you to want you....it will only hurt you more when he rejects you once again....

Answer 9

Maturity.... Be more mature and let them see that without giving yourself away.

Answer 10

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