i m 26 and i would ,more than anything,love to meet a nice bloke,who i can spend my life with.i know i sound desperate,and i have been told to be patient.i dont really go out so i hardly get to meet people.Ive tried the net ,dated one for 9 months ,only to find he was just after one thing.The funny thing is ,i still believe there is someone out there for me.......well heres my msn just incase that someone is reading this.....daisyjessicaann@hotmail.co.uk
2007-03-08 03:40:14 · 20 answers · asked by melrosejade 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really hope you get one too. Pray to God for it. God always answers Q's better than anyone on here.
2007-03-08 03:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
There seems to be a lot of pressure in society these days to be in a relationship, etc. I guess there is someone out there for everybody, so I have been told. I have been single now for a while mainly because I choose to be! I am feeling more and more like I want meet someone, but to be honest I wouldnt know where to start! Just be yourself and dont try to be someone else, respect yourself and be confident and you will find guys come running, knowing what you want I guess is important too, so you dont get taken for a ride! Not sure how good an idea it was to give out your MSN address on here as I have a feeling you will get loads of requests from all sorts of people, some genuine and some well you know how it is!
I hope that you meet someone, who respects and treats you well and things work out for you.
Good luck
Good luck in your search
2007-03-08 11:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... I do not think that you are desperate. I totally understand your situation, but just for the sake of a a suggestion I would not suggest anything silly. I would suggest that follow your friends advice of being patient. The one thing that I think you should change is that you should goo out more often, else the whole Being-Patient thing will last forever.
I personally don't believe in the efforts for searching love but atleast meet people to judge a possibility
2007-03-08 11:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by skepty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a male, can I comment that you should not try too hard. Just be yourself. Don't be in a rush.
Just be yourself, take your time, and even though you don't get out much, you will meet someone.
But to answer a question with a question. Would you sooner have someone today that you may break up with tomorrow - or wait for the right man?
Be patient, sunshine, it will happen.
2007-03-08 11:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Bunts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no. This is exactly why you don't have anyone. You're 26, you're young. I don't care how you look, you are sexy, if you don't believe that, how do you expect anyone else to? Don't leave desperate posts like this one with your e-mail address for the world to see. Now every freak with a penis will be messaging you. Am I sounding harsh, I hope so, because I want you to develop some confidence in yourself. Have the swagger of a goddess and you will have guys eating out of your hand (and other body parts!)
2007-03-08 11:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by the15don86 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh! Deary me. You will have to get out of this melodramatic attitude. You won't meet people if you don't make the effort so here is a plan:
If you belong to any Clubs, go more regularly.
If you are a Churchgoer.go more often.
If you are an only child, this is natural.
If you worry about it, nothing will happen.
Make it happen, but don't rely on first meetings.
Good luck.
2007-03-08 11:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by MANCHESTER UK 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Know exactly how you feel, not dated in years i'm 28! Bad relationship put me off for a while, now i really want to meet someone to share my life with, but been out the game for that long i find it really hard to pull, think itsa a confidence problem.
ghost-27@hotmail.co.uk
2007-03-08 11:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by thegenius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop looking for 'the one'. im sure that would be offputting to most if not all 26 year old guys... and theres someone out there for everyone. i just think your looking in the wrong places... i think the net is for the older people... those that would find it hard to find anyone of their own age in social places. go clubbing. make youself hot. give yourself a confidence boost with a new outifit and a new haircut. confidence is higly attractive to men. theyll be all over you
good luck
2007-03-08 12:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by maraesa1000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to believe there is soomeone out there for you because there is for sure. Good things come to those that wait. (some just have to wait a little longer) If you get tired of waiting just be patient, don't settle for second best!
2007-03-08 11:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by Stu pid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said I don't really go out much. Go out. Start new hobbies, join clubs, get out there. No one is going to come and knock on your door.
Be casual, carefree. Don't appear too eager or you might scare them away if they think you are out to grab a husband.
2007-03-08 11:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by p00756 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out there! how in the world can you expect to have any fun, let alone find anyone if you are a home body? try watching HITCH may give you come pointers
2007-03-08 11:44:47 · answer #11 · answered by POETIC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋