there is this girl that i can really tell she likes me but she has a boyfriend and thats her excuse every time how can i get her to go with me
2007-03-08 03:34:35 · 10 answers · asked by b-ball king#8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You see it as an excuse. Perhaps she really does care for her boyfriend even though she may find you to be attractive. Just because she likes you doesn’t mean she wants to date you. If she did she wouldn’t be making excuses. You also need to keep in mind that if you “get” her to date you and leave her boyfriend as soon as the next person catches her eye she may very well do the same to you that you want her to do to her current boyfriend. Why not just become friends with her, let her see that even though you’re attracted to her you’re willing to wait until she ends her current relationship. She will respect you for that and at the same time the two of you will develop a relationship as friends and will know a lot about one another.
2007-03-08 03:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off! If she wanted to be with you she would have ended things with him. She probably just feels flattered by the attention that she gets from you. All girls even ones with boyfriends/husbands still like to feel like they are attractive and want other men to fancy them! Sit back and play it safe, if she likes you as much as you say she'll soon come running and if not you have obviously been wasting your time!
2007-03-08 03:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is probably just playing you for attention. if she has a boyfriend she obviously has not broke up with him for you which means she likes him more than she likes you. sorry buddy but until she dumps him you need to back off and stop letting her walk all over you and keep you as a backup.
2007-03-08 03:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by rachael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so if you get her to leave this guy, what makes you think she won't then go with the next one who tries to get her away from you? Think about it, man. You really want a girl who's that easy to steal?
2007-03-08 03:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is still in a relationship. You can either wait for her or go out with other girls.
2007-03-08 03:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait it out until she breaks up with her current boyfriend.
2007-03-08 03:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by ChaiTea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confrount her about it and stop telling us! Go, and ask her mabey she'll change her mind about you!
2007-03-08 03:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her choose between her current and you, if she chooses her current, she prolly dont like you at all or just chicken to break it off with her guy. ;-)
did that to my guy!
2007-03-08 03:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by ♥NF♥N♥TY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u want to? she'll do the same to you
2007-03-08 03:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't
2007-03-08 03:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by smethansmee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋