Yea im a 23 year old Virgin for real. ive been close but on 4 different times when my boxers came of i got all sorts of excuses like "oh baby im just not in the mood" or "oh i feel really sick i gotta go home" do you think this could have something to with size??? i am small for a guy my age i think ( less then 3 inches) Am i missing out?? is sex just like masturbating?? honestly??
2007-03-08 03:21:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm almost 23 and still a virgin. I haven't even came close yet. I think if you find someone that loves you your physical characteristics won't make much difference to them. A lot of people are shallow these days.
2007-03-08 03:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by Smiles 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have the girls you have nearly had sex with been your girlfriends or just one night stands? If they were your girlfriends you should be able to ask them why it hasnt happened between you.
Size is not everything and there are plenty of ways of satisfying a woman in bed.
Im a girl so I dont know what it feels like for a guy, but sex is more about the feeling of intimacy than the actual sexual feeling. Its the two things together that make it different, if that makes sense.
Usually if you are going to have sex you will probably initiate the sex still with your clothes on and work your way up to it. If you have just taken all of your clothes off suddenly then this is maybe why it hasnt gone right.
Also you may want to think about really getting the girl aroused before you both get totally naked, otherwise it can seem a little bit rushed and hurried.
Its probably worth getting a real girlfriend for a while before doing anything at all, and that way you can talk about your concerns with her.
I hope this helps...dont give up hope!
2007-03-08 03:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by salsabrunette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait it is the most amazing out of the world feeling with the right person. As for size don't worry the right female will come along and you wont have to worry about anything. Sex should be because you care for the person not just to get it
2007-03-08 04:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its OK to be virgin at 23. maybe u need to find the right person not some hoe that only cares about ur penis. One question for u though is are u circumcised? If ur not and women where ur from are not used to seeing this they will freak out. For example most American women are not used to the image of an uncircumcised male.
2007-03-08 03:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it is ok to be a virigin at your age, so you don't look like brad pitt and aren't a 6'2" blond, blue-eyed stud, many girls will still want to shack up with you in bed. You just are not looking hard enough. There are many girls out there who are looking for one night stands you know who are not the most attractive and are not seeking men who are 6' tall. Don't be afraid to be a little bold. Not every girl can catch a guy who is 6' tall and a stud. If that were true girls would seldom date.
2007-03-08 03:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think your 16 and not 23 wait.
2007-03-08 03:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be proud by yourself,that you have 23 years old and you are still virgin. I think that if you ever make sex with someone one day you'll do it because you love him,i think that's why you make it.
i hope you got it :)
2007-03-08 03:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by B-real 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. You will eventually find the right person and you won't have to make excuses not to have sex with her. And no, sex isn't like masturbating.
2007-03-08 03:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by amberlynne_2007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex = amazing.
2007-03-08 03:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like best friend-best food-best place-best feeling-best everything then times 10000000000. way better than alone-ok depending on partner can be same or worse.
2007-03-08 03:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋