I just moved to a new city and been here just over a month now. My ex of 6 years and I broke up last spring and I've been taking a break, but being in a new city and not knowing anyone I turned to the internet to meet some girls. I'm ready to get back into the dating scene but all the girls I've met seem to be playin with me. Right now I kinda got this thing with one of em right now and lately it's like she's been avoiding me, thing is I don't know if that's true, but I don't know how else to take it. We were talking every night, then we met and kissed last weekend, since then tho we've barely talked and I would like to pursue something with her but I can't even get to talk to her. What should I do??
2007-03-08 03:16:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, girls are not the only ones who play games.
Second you answered your own question. Girls on the Internet. That's a problem within itself. Go to church, or other activities where you can met real people. Not, that you won't find game playing because I think everyone has alittle of that in them. Maybe your just looking in the wrong places on the net.
2007-03-08 03:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by txO3blueeyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your pursuing the wrong girls but just slow down and take your time the right one will soon come along i think maybe your just too anxious to find someone. In the mean time if this girl is acting the way you say she is well talk to her when you do and go out with other people and have some fun since she seems to have her blinds pulled don't let one monkey stop the show have fun!!!!!!!
2007-03-08 03:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel as if you are trying to move to fast to replace something you lost. My friend, that was history. Keep playing the game and don't get held up by one. The one you mentioned, you came on too strong I guess and you scared her off. She may have been burned as well. Sometimes it takes time. But you had better slow your emotions or get ready to use your hands allot! Don't get hung up on just one, keep on playing the game, you will be surprised. That one will slip up on you when you are not looking so hard. But you have to satisfy that urge to look, so get after it. You will soon tire of it and move slower and that is what you need. Sometimes it is the thrill of the chase and not the finality of the catch. Good Luck! Da. Kid
2007-03-08 03:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by oskkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is that you complain about this... I know you heard this thousand times... many girls play head games on internet, bar, Dating, etc.... So, you can't just complain why why why... really that real life out there you have to deal and learn about women how they do play head games and you gonna have to be tough... and so really I am not being mean to you but being honest with you..
I already know what going ot happen and I know who or which girl playing head games.. plain and simple.. learn it and know the tricks.
I do hope you take my word and understand this I am deaf I know I see body lang. expression and other things. I can read them... so you should do the same thing
2007-03-08 03:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-20 17:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what dating is about anymore and playing silly little games are what women love to do more than anything else. Wait PATIENTLY for the ones who don't play games..those will be worth the wait!!!
2007-03-08 03:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Ron C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she changed her mind about you after that kiss. Are you a bad kisser? Maybe a bad kiss gave her bad vibes and now she is not interested in you anymore.
2007-03-08 03:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you were not what she expected, no disrespect but maybe she had her own idea on what you looked like and what you were like, but don't get disappointed, maybe she's not the right girl for you. Keep looking you'll find the right one soon.
2007-03-08 03:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by Victor C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im with ya dude girls play games an most of the time they are cruel games.
2007-03-08 03:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋