This man is the father of my 3 yr old daughter. We were soooo great when we were together he was the most amazing lover ...BUT was with somone for about 6 yrs before him and I and he never left her for GOOD. meanwhile I got pregnant and he allready had 3 children(boys) with her. I had my daughter and his B**CH made him move about 6 states away and we havent seen him in 2 years. About once every 6 months or so he calls me in the middle of the night when SHES sleeping to tell me how sorry he is for everything hes done to me and how much he loves me still to this day. which makes me think about him more and more, the thing is our daughter doesnt have her fatehr and I have lost a lot of respct for him for that... BUT i still cant get him out of my heart.... still single bc HES THE ONE!!!! WHAT DO I DO? HOW CAN I GET HIM OUTA MY MIND?
2007-03-08 03:12:47 · 4 answers · asked by hottttmomma4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...He may be the father of your daughter...but he's absolutely not THE RIGHT ONE for you unfortunately. I'm certain that you both had some great times together,...when you were with each other...but hun?...he's gone now...and he lives far far away from you now. Shame on him for continuing to lead you on mentally here,...and shame on YOU for allowing him to do this to you too. Tell him to send the child support monthly,...and you'll allow him some visitation with his daughter when he can find the time to be responsible as a REAL man. Otherwise he's feeding you some mentally abusive directives here,...and you're eating it up like chicken fodder unwittingly. He's in control of you mentally,...and that right doesn't belong to him sweetie. YOU get in charge of YOU babe,...and start by disconnecting mentally with this abusive telepathy stuff right now. He might be sorry about some past stuff with you hun...but it's not his right to be continuing with this mental crap otherwise. Move forward and forget this loser babe. You'll begin to think and sleep better at night if you do. Your choice sweetie!...and only yours. Good luck darling.
2007-03-08 03:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by scott s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well next time he calls, tell him that he and your daughter need him.and that you love him very much. i understand that he had children with another woman and he is doing a good thing by being there for his other kids, but if he calls you in the middle of the night and tells you he wants to be with you and everything then you need to tell him to prove it.If he really loves you like he says he does then he will move to be with you. he can still have visitation with his kids. If that is what he is so worried about.He doesn't have to be miserable with Her.But if he is not wiling to make that effort then he needs to be a man and tell you, and then you will have to move on. there are plenty of guys that are single and looking to settle down.You just have to wait. good luck and i hope i helped even just a little. : )
2007-03-08 11:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Linds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time that dude calls, tell hin to come home. That girl is a loser to go with a married man.
2007-03-16 08:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Rosa Maria Gonzales 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not involved in your daughter's life by supporting her or visiting her then change your freaking phone number.
2007-03-08 12:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Twinkle♥Toes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋