Ditched a girl i was seeing on friday..... and she hasnt spoken to me until today and is asking all sorts of questions.....
I told her that we just werent right for each other.... and that i didnt feel any affection from her towards me....
The really reason is that i have found another girl that is far more beautiful and much more loving and caring and i cant keep my hands off her....and she feels the same....
But i didnt want to hurt this girls feelings so i am trying to let her down but she is getting quite angry with me.....
2007-03-08 03:09:18 · 26 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What should i do.....?
2007-03-08 03:09:38 · update #1
Tell her to kick rocks.......
2007-03-08 03:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Prostidude 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all if you had found another girl you should have still gone to meet this other one and let her know. A man should NEVER just ditch her like that and not give her an explanation. You are going to have to be honest with her. Just tell her the truth, that you dont see her in the same way she sees you. Yes, she might be angry but she will get over it sooner or later. Its better to let her know now than to lead her on and make her suffer later.
Good luck
2007-03-08 03:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Blood&Wine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are superficial and its all about looks with you... that being the case go ahead and crush her feeling cuz you never cared about her in the first place! BTW if you just got with someone on friday and you can't keep your hands off each other then the relationship is purely physical and wont last anyway. Its a shame for you to have hurt a nice person just to find someone "more beautiful".
2007-03-08 03:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by suzyalexisandgabe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest and tell her the truth. Why lie? Shes going to find out the truth. So, why don't you be a man and tell her. Yes you will hurt her, but not as bad as lien. By doing that you are hurting yourself.
By giving her the reason you did you are leading her to believe it is her fault. When actually your the one who found someone else. Just be a man, and be honest. Don't cop out. Its chicken Sh*t and makes you less a person in others eyes.
2007-03-08 03:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by txO3blueeyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doenst matter what you say or do cuz some girls (like the one you dumped) will gt angry and upset no matter how you let them down.
maybe since letting her down the easy way didnt work try honesty and just tell her why this is all happening. you dont have to be mean when you say it becuz its all about how you say it.
with ppl like this girl (trust me i know) its a lose lose situation and in the end someone gets hurt. she isnt going to be happy unless she has you or finds someone else. she'll get over it but just be honest with her about it dude.
2007-03-08 03:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by autumn_aka_slick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How nice are you!!!
Stick with the "we just are not right for each other" she will get over it - Try to ignore her and say "don't be getting angry with me i am sorry but i just don't like you in that way"
Take this new relationship slow as you don't want loose this girl if she is as nice as you say
I wish i could find a guy thats as thoughtful as you.
Good luck
2007-03-08 03:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by newsboysno1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's my opinion that she's going to get angry. Such is the world of relationships. You made the choice to be with another girl and if that is the choice you want, you weighed into effect her being angry. You can't dump her and expect it to be ok right? So cut it clean with her and move on with the one you love. To be blunt: life sucks sometimes.
2007-03-08 03:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by Joy G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you found somebody else and were smitten head over heels. You weren't planning to; it just happened.
Of course, if you DID meet this other woman after months of trolling singles bars or something, there's a problem with that story ...
2007-03-08 05:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a real man & be honest. It may hurt the girl's feelings but at least she'll know the truth.
2007-03-08 03:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you tell her the truth that might ease her off you. but since you dont want to hurt her then let her know that it would be best for you not to communicate. see if she will get the hint then
2007-03-08 03:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by Daisy Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you figure that lying is letting her down easy? Just tell here what you told us. End of problem.
2007-03-08 03:15:40 · answer #11 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋