I met a girl at a karaoke bar and she is sending mixed signals. I would like to get to know her better as time goes on and like her very much. I sing a love song that she tells her friends is her song. Then 1hr later she says that when she meets someone to go out with that she will explain to them that her and her ex fiance are just friends (she told me this after a discussion about her ex and his new gf about how his gf acts towards her). She says that she is not in love with him but still maintains a friendship. So she acts like one minute I am important but then says stuff that is like a friend?????
2007-03-08 03:09:09 · 6 answers · asked by kws504 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is confused, give her some time to come around. It sounds that she still has feelings for her Ex, even though she maintains that they are just friends. Us women, we like attention, and I am sure that she digs the attention that you give her, at the same time, she doesn't want to commit to you because of her Ex. If you care about her that much, tell her how you feel and express your concerns. But if you are not willing to give her some time to sort out her own feelings, or if you continue getting mixed signals from her, just move on - there are plenty of other beautiful fish in the sea. Either way, good luck! :)
2007-03-08 03:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by Queen Bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my good man, such is the nature of the complex beings that we call women. She is merely testing you, she wants to see if you'll to freak out and act desperate. Don't fold, be a man. Be assertive, and make it CLEAR through your body language and what you say that you are interested in a relationship, and NOT just be friends. She will walk all over you if you are afraid to be a man. Play with her hair, tease her, kiss her on her hands, but DO NOT ever let her discuss her ex in your presence. If she brings him up, politely remind her that she is dating you, and you do not wish to discuss him. If she still does not respect you, move on, you deserve to be in a relationship where you are wanted as much as you want them.
2007-03-08 11:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by the15don86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your new found friend sounds as if she’s confused about what she want and who she wants. It also sounds as though her ex fiancé has moved on with his life however she’s not let go of him and moved on with hers. You need to find out if you’re going to be a rebound guy for her. Did she and her fiancé recently break up. If they did then it’s understandable however if it’s been months and she’s not gotten over it then you need to walk away because she’s got bigger issues that she needs to deal with as far as him. Someone hasn’t snapped her into reality as of yet because even though her ex fiancé has a new person in his life she’s not really seeing that person as being there. I think in her mind she’s feeling that if she holds on to some sort of contact or connection with him he’ll come back to her. The best thing you can do for yourself and her is be a friend to her but nothing more. Don’t get yourself caught up in the drama that’s going to catch up with her one day. By her own admission to you, her ex fiancés girlfriend is really accepting her with open arms. That’s going to blow up in her face very soon because the new girl in he ex fiancés life is going to put her foot down or up in your new friends backside. I wish you the best.
2007-03-08 11:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WALK AWAY, dude if there's any confusion now just imagine how bad it would be IN a relationship with her
2007-03-08 11:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by icehawk00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope not at all she dose wanna b wit her ex thats what i think dont worry about her good luck
2007-03-08 11:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by soyelnegrito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oops! She must be IRRITATING!!!
2007-03-08 11:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋