why u girls want to control us. where are we going? what we did? what u took so long? why ask Do "you love me" 10 times a day???
2007-03-08 03:06:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like insecurity
2007-03-08 03:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by txO3blueeyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i have no idea why we do that but is true. some girls do it more than other and some do it in a question type of thing and others do it to really control. i for example ask my boyfriend where he is but just to know not really to control him and i do ask him alot if he loves me. i guess we girls need reasurance. and it just feels nice to hear the words i love u and honestly guys dont say it to much, so maybe thats why we ask.
2007-03-08 03:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of times its not that we're trying to be controlling its that we're trying to make sure that we're not alone in our feelings for u. Many times it can be insecurity but u can help her by making her feel more secure in the relationship. Surprise her sometimes by tellin her what ur goin to do that day without her having to ask u. Udont have to do this all the time but it makes her feel more secure and she will eventually stop asking.
2007-03-08 03:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is the girl that you are with dont put bein controlling on all of us. And im pretty sure that guys can be just as controlling, Where were you, why didnt you call,why were you talking to him? it goes both ways bud. N if its a specific girl thats doin it to you then get away fom her if it bugs you that bad!!!
2007-03-08 03:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever this girl is, you need to ditchher fast. She seems clingy and overbarring. A non-crazy girl will just go with the flow, unless you are being a jerk. Find a girl who doesn't need to keep tabs on you 24/7
2007-03-08 03:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by VB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are CATS (we like to be caressed all the time, feel the love, feel the warmth...etc). We are high maintenance.
Also, we want to make sure that our guys think of us all the times and that's why we keep asking all different questions.
it's totally natural and perfectly normal.
2007-03-08 03:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone is, perhaps you just haven't met the one who will trust you as yu deserve... OR perhaps you are doing things that make her doubt and therefore she wants to know more about you . telling her that you love her without waiting for her to ask you may also eliminate the nine other times that she'll ask u... a little initiative from your end might help. if she sees ur efforts, she'll appreciate them and won't be nagging you anymore!
2007-03-08 03:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by schatz101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its an evolutionary adaption. its called jealousy and uncertainty thats y women always ask if they look fat or why they ask were ou've been cause they are afraid of loosing their bread winner to a rival female.
2007-03-08 03:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my boyfrien have been dating for acouple of months and I never ask him " you love me?" 10 times a day...i abrely even ask anything from him :) i don't call him...he calls me hahah!
2007-03-08 03:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of us girls are insecure. we have that motherly instinct in most of us and we use it alot before we have kids.
2007-03-08 03:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by jean d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋