So I am going out with the younger guy this week, obviously I won't attack him on our first night out but...because he is younger should I take control (on the date and in the bedroom)or do you think he would want to prove his a man and be the dominant one??!!! Yes I',m 25 and he is 19 ...
2007-03-08 03:06:02 · 16 answers · asked by money bank 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is for the lovely lady that thinks I'm immature...obviously I'm not actually going to attack him..get a sense of humour!!..as for the age thing, some of us girls need a younger man for certain needs..he seems grown up enough..
I do act my age, I have just happened to be asked out by a younger man...
All I mean is he is younger shall I let him take the lead, so my age/experience doesn't show through?
2007-03-08 03:18:31 · update #1
Yep go for it!!Im sure he will love it --- thats half the thrill i think for theses younger boys!!!You show him what us older women are made of!!! x
2007-03-08 03:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take charge of the situation?
I am amazed that at 25 you don't understand the male race. No man - especially at 19 - likes the female to take charge.
The age difference is a red herring. It matters not.
Let him set the agenda. He may not be used to females talking about the bedroom at such an early stage in the relationship.
If it is a relationship you are looking for, you are going the wrong way about it.
If it is a sexual relationship you want, then chose someone older and more experienced.
The tenor of your question sounds like female rape!
2007-03-08 04:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by Bunts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, all I can say, is lucky, lucky you. You could find that he will be the one to attack you. Age does not really make a difference, a person can be shy whether young or old. I would go on the date and see how things go and if you feel the urge to give in to your animal instincts and dominate him, then so be it. Plus, if he is aware of your age, perhaps he wants to be dominated anyway. Good luck!
2007-03-08 03:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by misshoneybun28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 32 and my BF is 24 (8 Years younger than me)
Just let things take their course, dont force any issue and have fun, thats the importaint part.
Good Luck
2007-03-08 03:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by Scottish Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I wouldnt worry, just see what happens and how things develop naturally. As for the age thing I wouldnt worry about that either, After all if you aare both happy then what does age matter, your not hurting anyone.
Good luck
2007-03-08 03:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it by ear. But a pushy, controllng woman is a complete turnoff to most men. (of any age)
Oh, and 25 vs 19...you are not THAT much older.
2007-03-08 03:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy of 5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel is right, i like a man to be a man and take control but nineteen is young so you might have to take charge, good luck with your toyboy, at least he will be able to take the pace in the bedroom
2007-03-08 03:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by jojo78 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cuz he's younger doesn't mean he's going to be all naive and shy! He might surprise you!! Do what you feel is right in the moment and just have fun!
2007-03-08 03:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody should EVER take advantage of anyone else. Just because he's a few years younger does not mean you should try to dominate him.
2007-03-08 03:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Play hard to get, if you do it properly with a bit of teasing he wont be long in making a move and you,ll both get what you want without loosing any respect.
2007-03-08 03:21:06 · answer #10 · answered by bigjamsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋