He moved away for his job and I could not go because of my daughter until she got out of school. He was only there 5 months and he started talking to someone. Then he tells me that he is going to tell her about me and let her down easy. Well he still called everyday and said he loved me. Then he told me he could not afford for me to be there anymore, that he could not pay his bills. Then after 5 months he moves in with her! So I said well you made your choice. He called the day he moved in with her crying and told me that he put all his stuff in storage and it was waiting for us. But he still calls everday and tells me he loves me but his time is spent with her. Why does he do this if he is with her? What would you do if you were me? It was a special love, well to me it was anyway.
2007-03-08 02:53:24 · 6 answers · asked by T B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because the man doesn't know what he wants first he says i love you next thing you know he is movingi n with another women he is doing this cause he doesn't know which one he wants .
2007-03-08 02:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by somebodyssexygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firendship between men and women, is possible.
So it is possible that she is his only true friend, that he could move in with, since he has to cut down on expenses.
I know the chances for this are very low, but is posible.
You need talk with him, so he explains exactly where you stand in his life, and what is her place.
And decide from that
2007-03-08 11:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about him. This guy is a jerk and you could do better. Even though it will be hard avoid all contact with him and move on with your life.
2007-03-08 11:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing games for sure...who knows why he is doing it but him...maybe holding on to you in case she does not work out.
If I were you...I sure would not be talking to someone who played games with my heart and is living and sleeping with another woman. Like you said...it was special to you...evidently it was not special to him or he would be with you and not be jerking your chain while he is living with someone else. Wake up and smell the roses and move on.
be cool...
2007-03-08 11:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man really loves you, he would be with you. he wouldnt risk being away from you. obviously there is something amazing about you, but dont let it go to waste with him, love yourself and know you deserve better and let go of him.
2007-03-08 10:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still wants you to be thinking about him so you wont be able to move on but you need to forget about him
2007-03-08 10:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋