Hi guys,
I am a 28 year old guy getting married in 3 months time. I am a virgin and have saved it all up for the right one ! I am quite anxious abt the first time sex . She is a virgin too. I am afraid I will endup and get wet and finish very quickly the first time and that the first time will end sooner than it started .
Any first time similar experiences of you guys ? Any fiascos? Does it get better with time ?
Girls how did your guy perform the first time ( if he was a virgin )
Please share your experiences.
Thanks
Tim.
2007-03-08 02:44:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am honestly wondering what the girls thought abt their guys the first time. I mean if the guys were virgins it must have been tough?
2007-03-08 02:56:18 · update #1
These are personal, private experiences and it is odd that you would expect people to share them. Are you ready for marriage?
2007-03-08 02:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My first sexual experience was when i was 19 with a girlfriend. It was after a party at a friends place and everybody had either gone home or asleep. I remember i was on top of her underneath the cover. Because it was so hot i couldn't tell the difference if it was in or hitting the inner thigh. Needless to say she got tired of me being "in" half the time and decided to ride instead lol.
I never had a premature ejaculation, i think mainly because i had always been a heavy masturbater..i think that kind of desensitized me back then.
I can tell you it definitely gets better no matter how big of a fiasco your first time is. Its all about getting back up on the saddle again.
Just remember just because you c um doesn't mean it has to stop there. Being a young guy you will be ready after 5 minutes again. Incidentally you could always jerk off in the bathroom before your sexual act, that way you don't have to worry about ending it too fast.
2007-03-08 02:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time, especially with two virgins, will probably be a little clumsy. It takes practice to perfect your technique. Don't expect your wedding night sex to be phenomenal (except for the fact that it's your first time). It'll take a year or so of learning each other's bodies to make phenomenal sex.
2007-03-08 02:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have my respect....lol, trust me, first time will be a lil ackward, but hey, its all good, its just like riding a bike, your gonna fall the first few times. and trust me, if you dont last long, laugh and blame her for it. true story. 2 days ago i was with my gf all day and i was pretty much hard the whole time. i lasted like 30 seconds >.< i just laughed and told her to stop being a flirt and we went right back at it, i was a champ afterwards. just believe me, you guys love each other obviously, any thing you do together will be good. TRUST ME, you'll be fine and you'll have fun. enjoy yourself and good luck on your future endeavors
2007-03-08 02:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by Gibs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never been with a virgin . . . and I'm pretty sure you are right in your fear that it will end pretty quickly since you have no experience. It should get better with time if you learn to control it.
2007-03-08 02:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you WILL finish too soon but if u both are understanding and caring then you'll realize that it's not a big deal and you'll be ready to go again in a few minutes. during this time is a good time to pleasure her and keep the mood going.
2007-03-08 02:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by t d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well as a virgin that got married that way, I can say take it very slow.
I massaged my wife (shoulders) and had the right items (lubricant) to help.
Just take it very slow (it makes it more special), tell her how beautiful she looks and how you are glad to be there, and remember she is as nervous as you are.
2007-03-08 02:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by infobrokernate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to just embrace her. Don't embrace the moment or the act. Don't put pressure on yourself to please her. Take it slow. For most of the girls that I know, it hurt for their first time, so don't be surprised or upset if she tells you to stop. Also just do what comes natural and talk to eachother. Tell one another what the other one is feeling, thinking, what you like, what you don't like about what is going on.
2007-03-08 02:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one things that is very importanat with that is that you do not need to let that be the only thing on your mind I mean if your thinking the whole what if iget off to quick, youre going to just dont worry about it!!!! relax and just go with the flow!!!! it will work out sweeties dont worry about it!!!!!
Good Luck,
jessie
2007-03-08 02:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by JessieRae07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was my BFs first time and since its hers as well i dont think you realy have much to worry about because she realy dosent know what to expect from it.
2007-03-08 02:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋