There is this girl who i'm in love with, but my best friend loves her too. But when he asked her out she said no and he said it was ok if i asked her out. What should i do.
2007-03-08 02:27:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her out
2007-03-08 02:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the culture of your society and your personal beliefs. If you feel deep down in your heart that it's Ok and asking the girl out will not, in any way, affect your friendship with your bestfriend, the maybe you can ask the girl out. Be sensitive about feelings of all.= )
2007-03-08 10:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by Smile2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass on her, or give it alot of time. Althouh your friend says its ok it may not be or he may think it is and its not. He may not have thought about how he will feel when you and her are together and hang out with him or something. I would at least give it some time. If you really thought it would be ok to go after her you wouldn't have asked, you know it's an iffy situation.
2007-03-08 10:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by elephantfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. If you don't you might regret it. Maybe she is waiting for you to ask her. Maybe that is why she said no to your friend. Or maybe she has her eye on someone else. Have to be honest. The only way to find out, is to ask her.
2007-03-08 10:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really make sure before you do this that your friend does not mind. If he is just making a statement to go out with her but deep down still has feelings for her do you want to jeopardize that friendship?
2007-03-08 10:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by ALASPADA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is more important to you. Your friend or the girl..? He is probably only saying to ask her out because he is your friend and he cares about you. But it would hurt him if you really did.
2007-03-08 10:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
son, you got a green light. prepare yourself well; make sure she's alone when you ask her. start with a small talk, make her feel comfortable around you. then ask to go out for a friendly date; like a movie. good luck.
2007-03-08 10:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brush your teeth, gargle some mouthwash, put on some deodorant, a little aftershave, THEN ask her out!
2007-03-08 10:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by smartazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the ladys. Ask her out. If she agrees and your friend becomes envy it´s his problem. You asked him before...
2007-03-08 10:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Steini - 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first it not love how old are you under 18 its call infatuation and ask her if she tell you yes then she like you better and if he is you friend he will understand.
2007-03-08 10:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by pjlisa13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋