say you have sexy ultra-hottie bf, but he is very busy, very quiet and very hard to hook up with regularily? not engaged, just dating or whatever? is the desire and urge to kiss women cheating?? what about sex with women, not men? Hurry cause St. PAtricks day is comming up and i HE isn't coming with me this year!
2007-03-08 02:02:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
KIMMY you KNOW it
2007-03-08 02:13:18 · update #1
If that's what you are feeling and if that's what you desire then go for it and if he complains then he can't say anything because you needed someone and he wasn't there with you.
I wouldn't call it cheating, just exploring your options!
2007-03-08 02:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having the desire and urge isn’t cheating as long as you don’t act upon those feelings. However if you feel that you want to explore them you should at least give him the respect of talking to him about your considering exploring outside of the relationship. To answer your question, just think to yourself how would you feel if the two of you switched places? Look deep within your thoughts about how you would feel and you’ll have your answer.
2007-03-08 10:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect yourself. Kissing / sex / inapprotpiate contact with ANYONE is cheating. You've got to know beter. If you're not happy, find the GUY that is right for you. If you are happy, don't cloud your mind with impure thoughts. Hope my thoughts helped...
2007-03-08 10:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by befit4free 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your urges to have sex with the same sex can be a little bit normal. You are just bored with what you've got.
2007-03-08 10:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by tisdale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is cheating. But it depends on your views and your beliefs. But most people believe (as do I) that sex with anyone is cheating.
The urge will still probably be there. But do not act on it.
2007-03-08 10:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by semiphez1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and see what he thinks. If he thinks its cheating, then it is. Just make it clear that you just want to go out and have a good time. If he thinks that's cool, then party on!
2007-03-08 10:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by krysmaslily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's cheating.
2007-03-08 10:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by elephantfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats still cheating.
Be respectful, to yourself, more than anything and tell him
2007-03-08 10:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by chersa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating only matters if you get caught.
2007-03-08 10:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by DoubleD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Desiring" and "urging" is not cheating....It's if we actually act on those desires and urges, with either sex!!
2007-03-08 10:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by ET 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋